By a lot of suggestions of fetishism studies, "rape fetishes" were developed as a consequence of women learning to cope with the constant rape of human's more animalistic eras of development.
I don't really buy that. I would expect that if this were true, the male experience of rape would be far less able to cope, but I've seen no evidence of that being true.
I didn't mean to imply they sought to get conquered to fulfill orgasms, but it influenced their decision making process once the conquering came.
Right, but there's a difference between a fairly rational survival choice and a fetish.
These are extremes, but not as rare as you would think once you get involved in the "lifestyle."
I feel like that's more likely to be the result of having been involved with "the lifestyle", rather than just the aggregate results.
I do completely agree there is that difference. Many end up paying the price for not knowing that. The line between the two is often not well defined in their head.
Right, and I think that discrepancy is coming out as a result of the influences in society that are promoting femininity in men as a moral good.
I don't really buy that. I would expect that if this were true, the male experience of rape would be far less able to cope, but I've seen no evidence of that being true.
Right, but there's a difference between a fairly rational survival choice and a fetish.
I feel like that's more likely to be the result of having been involved with "the lifestyle", rather than just the aggregate results.
Right, and I think that discrepancy is coming out as a result of the influences in society that are promoting femininity in men as a moral good.