Yeah, there's this Scottish guy who I follow on Youtube, very funny guy, named 6oodfella.
He's often made the point that as much as he doesn't like black women and finds them to be horrifically obnoxious; he feels sorry for them, because black men are women.
Women want stable people, emotionally stoic people. Flying off the handle at every little sleight and perceived "disrespect" is women's territory. So black women look at all these black men and go "they act like women"; so in that respect he feels sorry for black women because their own dating pool is limited to essentially women when you look at the behavior.
I've said it before, I'll say it again, and you've hit on the inversion of them thinking ghetto black is cool. It's about the least cool thing there is. Like a point I made a day ago I think it was, in an action movie, who's the cool guy? The silent one who walks away from an explosion without looking at it, or the sidekick played by Sean William Scott who does something minor and gloats about it for half the movie?
Now which do black people, like football players act more like, the stoic "let my actions speak for me" or the mockworthy sidekick?
If they score a touchdown they have to make the game pause for 30 seconds so they can motion to their crotch like Michael Jackson or pantomime a dance. It's the least cool thing ever.
And it makes sense. Real strong masculinity is seen in fathers. So many black men have two things to look to growing up, their mothers, or other gangs, who themselves were raised by mothers. So you get what women do when women try to portray masculinity, and it always comes off as cartoonish because they fundamentally don't understand it. That's why anything "masculine" or "tough" on the surface needs to be self broadcasted with a neon sign thus proving they're not truly masculine or tough. It's exactly what women do when they portray girl bosses.
Truly masculine people don't need to say "look world, isn't this tough", they just exist and are masculine.
I mean what I'm trying to say, which is essentially what you're saying could have a book written on it so there's a lot of disjointed and not fully fleshed out things of what I'm trying to say; aka we could both give like a thousand more analogies or examples, but I have to end it somewhere even though I feel like I could rant on this very point you've hit on all night if I felt inclined to.
Yeah, there's this Scottish guy who I follow on Youtube, very funny guy, named 6oodfella.
He's often made the point that as much as he doesn't like black women and finds them to be horrifically obnoxious; he feels sorry for them, because black men are women.
Women want stable people, emotionally stoic people. Flying off the handle at every little slight and percieved "disrespect" is women's territory. So black women look at all these black men and go "they act like women"; so in that respect he feels sorry for black women because their own dating pool is limited to essentially women when you look at the behavior.
I've said it before, I'll say it again, and you've hit on the inversion of them thinking ghetto black is cool. It's about the least cool thing there is. Like a point I made a day ago I think it was, in an action movie, who's the cool guy? The silent one who walks away from an explosion without looking at it, or the sidekick played by Sean William Scott who does something minor and gloats about it for half the movie?
Now which do black people, like football players act more like, the stoic "let my actions speak for me" or the mockworthy sidekick?
If they score a touchdown they have to make the game pause for 30 seconds so they can motion to their crotch like Michael Jackson or pantomime a dance. It's the least cool thing ever.
And it makes sense. Real strong masculinity is seen in fathers. So many black men have two things to look to growing up, their mothers, or other gangs, who themselves were raised by mothers. So you get what women do when women try to portray masculinity, and it always comes off as cartoonish because they fundamentally don't understand it. That's why anything "masculine" or "tough" on the surface needs to be self broadcasted with a neon sign thus proving they're not truly masculine or tough. It's exactly what women do when they portray girl bosses.
Truly masculine people don't need to say "look world, isn't this tough", they just exist and are masculine.
I mean what I'm trying to say, which is essentially what you're saying could have a book written on it so there's a lot of disjointed and not fully fleshed out things of what I'm trying to say; aka we could both give like a thousand more analogies or examples, but I have to end it somewhere even though I feel like I could rant on this very point you've hit on all night if I felt inclined to.
Yeah, there's this Scottish guy who I follow on Youtube, very funny guy, named 6oodfella.
He's often made the point that as much as he doesn't like black women and finds them to be horrifically obnoxious; he feels sorry for them, because black men are women.
Women want stable people, emotionally stoic people. Flying off the handle at every little slight and percieved "disrespect" is women's territory. So black women look at all these black men and go "they act like women"; so in that respect he feels sorry for black women because they're own dating pool is limited to essentially women when you look at the behavior.
I've said it before, I'll say it again, and you've hit on the inversion of them thinking ghetto black is cool. It's about the least cool thing there is. Like a point I made a day ago I think it was, in an action movie, who's the cool guy? The silent one who walks away from an explosion without looking at it, or the sidekick played by Sean William Scott who does something minor and gloats about it for half the movie?
Now which do black people, like football players act more like, the stoic "let my actions speak for me" or the mockworthy sidekick?
If they score a touchdown they have to make the game pause for 30 seconds so they can motion to their crotch like Michael Jackson or pantomime a dance. It's the least cool thing ever.
And it makes sense. Real strong masculinity is seen in fathers. So many black men have two things to look to growing up, their mothers, or other gangs, who themselves were raised by mothers. So you get what women do when women try to portray masculinity, and it always comes off as cartoonish because they fundamentally don't understand it. That's why anything "masculine" or "tough" on the surface needs to be self broadcasted with a neon sign thus proving they're not truly masculine or tough. It's exactly what women do when they portray girl bosses.
Truly masculine people don't need to say "look world, isn't this tough", they just exist and are masculine.
I mean what I'm trying to say, which is essentially what you're saying could have a book written on it so there's a lot of disjointed and not fully fleshed out things of what I'm trying to say; aka we could both give like a thousand more analogies or examples, but I have to end it somewhere even though I feel like I could rant on this very point you've hit on all night if I felt inclined to.