The worst part of the current dynamic is that it has people framing things as men vs women (or left vs right, or red vs blue...), which was absolutely not the case even 20 years ago. You can argue about what other people are doing til you're blue in the face, but the only real solution that exists for those who are fed up with porn is to seek actual relationships.
Let those who actually have the tools to understand the total dynamics of the issue, seek the solutions. Feel free to contact them with your concerns, but try to stay away from demanding specific resolutions, the way activist cultures tend to do.
The worst part of the current dynamic is that it has people framing things as men vs women (or left vs right, or red vs blue), which was absolutely not the case even 20 years ago. You can argue about what other people are doing til you're blue in the face, but the only real solution that exists for those who are fed up with porn is to seek actual relationships.
Let those who actually have the tools to understand the total dynamics of the issue, seek the solutions. Feel free to contact them with your concerns, but try to stay away from demanding specific resolutions, the way activist cultures tend to do.
The worst part of the current dynamic is that it has people framing things as men vs women, which was absolutely not the case even 20 years ago. You can argue about what other people are doing til you're blue in the face, but the only real solution that exists for those who are fed up with porn is to seek actual relationships.
Let those who actually have the tools to understand the total dynamics of the issue, seek the solutions. Feel free to contact them with your concerns, but try to stay away from demanding specific resolutions, the way activist cultures tend to do.