A thing they're missing is the common courtesies they're talking about are rooted in living in a high-trust society. The West aren't those anymore.

Their precious feminism played no small role in creating this situation.

You'd think that could have resulted in in-group courtesy, but instead we got the outcome where everyone is looking out for themselves.

I think the issue is that the in-group is tiny for any individual person, which is a result of living in a low-trust society as you mention. In the shithole metro area I live in a random white dude is only slightly more trustworthy than a diversity import. I certainly wouldn't consider them a member of my in-group until I have good reason to. So that leaves friends and family. We're Balkanized at a much lower level than demographic groups.

A thing they're missing is the common courtesies they're talking about are rooted in living in a high-trust society. The West aren't those anymore.

Their precious feminism played no small role in creating this situation.

You'd think that could have resulted in in-group courtesy, but instead we got the outcome where everyone is looking out for themselves.

I think the issue is that the in-group is tiny for any individual person, which is a result of living in a low-trust society as you mention. In the shithole metro area I live in a random white dude is only slightly more trustworthy than a diversity import. I certainly wouldn't consider them a member of my in-group until I have good reason to. So that leaves friends and family. We're Balkanized at a much smaller level than demographic groups.