The frustrating thing is that the "big conservative" types are still strongly influenced by feminism so that they essentially hold both the "women are completely capable" view AND the "men are to blame for how women act" view.

The frustrating thing is that the "big conservative" types are still strongly influenced by feminism so that they essentially hold both the "women are incompetent" view (phrased in a more socially acceptable way, of course) AND the "men are to blame for how women act" view.