Probably most of it. But you are still responsible for letting yourself be pulled into it at the end of the day.

Yeah, I don't buy that. You're responsible for pulling yourself out of it, but only after you become aware that you're stuck in the trap. I'd wager a large portion of them don't even realize half of the traps they've fallen into are traps. Step 0 is to realize a problem even exists and until they get there you can't really berate them for failing to correct course.

but we still hold them accountable for being a slut.

I'd argue this isn't true at all.

Probably most of it. But you are still responsible for letting yourself be pulled into it at the end of the day.

Yeah, I don't buy that. You're responsible for pulling yourself out of it, but only after you become aware that you're stuck in the trap. I'd wager a large portion of them don't even realize half of the traps they've fallen into are traps. Step 0 is to realize a problem even exists and until they get there you can't really berate them for failing to correct course.

but we still hold them accountable for being a slut. I'd argue this isn't true at all.