If you want to discuss technicalities then you are correct so let me rephrase in a manner you'll understand.

You can't change your core personality over a few quick tricks of "games" a man plays. You can be aware of all these tricks/games and try to play them but this won't change your core personality no matter how good you get at faking it.

What I'm saying is when guys are talking on the internet and someone says "just don't text her good morning every morning and then she won't get like this" I can safety say that's not it. A man would need to change absolutely everything about his core personality not just a few tricks here or there like this...because that's what ultimately this is: a reflection of his personality.

Since your personality is already mostly set-in-stone, a much bigger factor is going to be looks holding all else constant.

If a good looking man doesn't text her good morning he has a much higher chance of success than a bad looking man who doesn't.

To summarize the point I'm making. Men playing games with women doesn't work. I've seen men do this all the time and it doesn't get men anywhere. 99% of the time the men play the games, the people see right through the games to the core of the man's personality. The woman has already decided if she finds the man attractive or not and what the man does at this stage has limited impact. That's why the advice of "just be yourself" isn't actually bad advice. Men don't like this advice because then men have to accept that they aren't truly in control of the women they can or cannot obtain but that's mostly true. Men have very limited impact on their ability to get women. A man's genetics are set when he's born and so is most of his life trajectory based on his parents and this will shape his overall attractiveness. You can't run away from who you are by playing some games with women on asserting texting dominance at the start of the relationship. You're either already attractive or you're not and these little games mean mostly nothing in the end.

A great example of this is PUA shit. These guys think all the stuff they say matters but it mostly doesn't. The woman has already decided if she is going to sleep with the guy or not no matter what he says. It's just a matter of don't say anything so bad she loses all interest despite already being interested. Like on tinder when guys with hot pics tell women they were in prison for pedophilia and the girls still want to meetup to fuck.

Yes, I agree you see bad looking men with good looking women so obviously certain things other than looks matter but really, it comes down to what the woman wants and each woman is slightly different. You can try to play games all you want but most men are simply getting lucky that they are what the woman wants rather than the man actively changing things to get what he wants. Most men have very limited influence on their ability to gain women or not. That's why you have men who literally have never thought to try to get women and they end up with any woman they want and you have high IQ smart men unable to get women no matter what they do. It's not that they lack the ability to problem solve the situation, it's that they lack the genetics and upbringing to get women which is ultimately the most important thing. What you say or don't say doesn't matter because if you had what it takes to get women through superior personality you'd already say what needs to be said without thinking about it. Guys trying to improve their chances by saying/doing the right thing aren't going to change who they really are so they aren't going to have any more or less success doing this stuff. If the guy ends up successful, he was already going to be successful regardless of what he thought he should say to certain things.

These "games" are worthless. Either you're attractive (both physically and personality) or you're not. The more attractive you are the more you can say whatever you want. The less attractive you are the more you have to say/do all the right things but if it doesn't come naturally, the more you're going to fuck up so trying to focus on one thing like just don't text her in the morning isn't going to be it because there's no at that was going to be the make or break. Either you were already so attractive to begin with that it doesn't matter or you were already so unattractive to begin with no matter what you did, it was going to end poorly for you anyhow.

If you want to discuss technicalities then you are correct so let me rephrase in a manner you'll understand.

You can't change your core personality over a few quick tricks of "games" a man plays. You can be aware of all these tricks/games and try to play them but this won't change your core personality no matter how good you get at faking it.

What I'm saying is when guys are talking on the internet and someone says "just don't text her good morning every morning and then she won't get like this" I can safety say that's not it. A man would need to change absolutely everything about his core personality not just a few tricks here or there like this...because that's what ultimately this is: a reflection of his personality.

Since your personality is already mostly set-in-stone, a much bigger factor is going to be looks holding all else constant.

If a good looking man doesn't text her good morning he has a much higher chance of success than a bad looking man who doesn't.

To summarize the point I'm making. Men playing games with women doesn't work. I've seen men do this all the time and it doesn't get men anywhere. 99% of the time the men play the games, the people see right through the games to the core of the man's personality. The woman has already decided if she finds the man attractive or not and what the man does at this stage has limited impact. That's why the advice of "just be yourself" isn't actually bad advice. Men don't like this advice because then men have to accept that they aren't truly in control of the women they can or cannot obtain but that's mostly true. Men have very limited impact on their ability to get women. A man's genetics are set when he's born and so is most of his life trajectory based on his parents and this will shape his overall attractiveness. You can't run away from who you are by playing some games with women on asserting texting dominance at the start of the relationship. You're either already attractive or you're not and these little games mean mostly nothing in the end.