Another thing to keep in mind I guess is that there's probably a fair number of women who are in the same boat, and don't know where the hell they can find some good fishing either.

Just a thought that occurs to me, but maybe try to approach the general goal from a different perspective. Put an emphasis on just meeting people in different walks of life every so often, in different environments. Don't do it with any pressure or specific objectives in mind other than to experience life in new and different ways or something. And in turn, you might end up meeting someone who's at a similar place in life and isn't half-bad.

I think as gamers (for which I assume a good number of people here are), it's easy to get stuck in an objective focused mindset of how to approach things, rather than just experiencing things as they come and seeking out experiences for their own sake.

And I know it sounds pretty vague and hokey. But I guess given the sheer "RNG", there's a better chance at catching something worthwhile by traveling and exploring in wider patterns. (And no, I'm not even remotely suggesting that you or anyone else should start steering into leftist hives or anything like that)

Another thing to keep in mind I guess is that there's probably a fair number of women who are in the same boat, and don't know where the hell they can find some good fishing either.

Just a thought that occurs to me, but maybe try to approach the general goal from a different perspective. Put an emphasis on just meeting people in different walks of life every so often, in different environments. Don't do it with any pressure or specific objectives in mind other than to experience life in new and different ways or something. And in turn, you might end up meeting someone who's at a similar place in life and isn't half-bad.

I think as gamers (for which I assume a good number of people here are), it's easy to get stuck in an objective focused mindset of how to approach things, rather than just experiencing things as they come and seeking out experiences for their own sake.