The secret is to be okay with not finding someone.

Even if I didn't meet her, I'd be happier alone than in an imperfect relationship.

This could be called something like "accepting MGTOW in principle", and is very powerful for men based on a standard analysis of negotiation in any context. If you are not willing to walk away from a bad deal and just say no, the other party has you by the balls and can demand anything they want. Obviously the same thing applies to men and relationships - if men are told that they need to find a woman or the most important thing a man could ever achieve is having access to sex, then they are easily manipulated into accepting bad deals as they aren't willing to walk away from these.

That's why most of the standard advice for men, from women, from "traditionalists" and even from "red-pilled men", is bunk - it still focuses entirely on men "getting" women, rather than men just being their own men and demanding a good deal, or being happy being alone if it doesn't come along.

The secret is to be okay with not finding someone. Even if I didn't meet her, I'd be happier alone than in an imperfect relationship.

This could be called something like "accepting MGTOW in principle", and is very powerful for men based on a standard analysis of negotiation in any context. If you are not willing to walk away from a bad deal and just say no, the other party has you by the balls and can demand anything they want. Obviously the same thing applies to men and relationships - if men are told that they need to find a woman or the most important thing a man could ever achieve is having access to sex, then they are easily manipulated into accepting bad deals as they aren't willing to walk away from these.

That's why most of the standard advice for men, from women, from "traditionalists" and even from "red-pilled men", is bunk - it still focuses entirely on men "getting" women, rather than men just being their own men and demanding a good deal, or being happy being alone if it doesn't come along.

Even if I didn't meet her, I'd be happier alone than in an imperfect relationship.

This could be called something like "accepting MGTOW in principle", and is very powerful for men based on a standard analysis of negotiation in any context. If you are not willing to walk away from a bad deal and just say no, the other party has you by the balls and can demand anything they want. Obviously the same thing applies to men and relationships - if men are told that they need to find a woman or the most important thing a man could ever achieve is having access to sex, then they are easily manipulated into accepting bad deals as they aren't willing to walk away from these.

That's why most of the standard advice for men, from women, from "traditionalists" and even from "red-pilled men", is bunk - it still focuses entirely on men "getting" women, rather than men just being their own men and demanding a good deal, or being happy being alone if it doesn't come along.