I can lead a horse to water, but I can't make it drink.

In this case it's more like:

I have horse. It was drinking from a watering hole that has alligators in it. It already witnessed 4 of it's friends get attacked and dragged into the lake. So, I led a horse to a watering station, built 3 separate troughs with different flavored water, offered them up, and the horse looks at me like I'm a fucking idiot and says, "But my friends are over by the watering hole! I'm already used to the watering hole."

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"Listen here you little shit..."

I'm not going to try an force their hand. It's been recommended to me, but I feel like that might be a violation of the users trust to just lock posts, or even private the sub for a while.

I can lead a horse to water, but I can't make it drink.

In this case it's more like:

I have horse. It was drinking from a watering hole that has alligators in it. It already witnessed 4 of it's friends get attacked and dragged into the lake. So, I led a horse to a watering station, built 3 separate troughs with different flavored water, offered them up, and the horse looks at me like I'm a fucking idiot and says, "But my friends are over by the watering hole! I'm already used to the watering hole."

...

"Listen here you little shit..."