I haven't seen the episode in a while but it seems like you're just repeating some feminist trope.

My recollection was the problem was they wrote her as semi-austic girl, but then they cast her as "perfect girl anime love interest" - the reason was super awkward to watch was the contrast between how her character had poor ability to relate to men vastly over-reacted to everything, while the actress playing her came across "perfect sex nympthet" basically - it just didn't make any sense.

No one had a problem with riker having a holodeck wafu.

I haven't seen the episode in a while but it seems like you're just repeating some feminist trope.

My recollection was the problem was they wrote her as semi-austic girl, but then they cast her as "perfect girl anime love interest" - the reason was super awkward to watch was the contrast between how her character had poor ability to relate to men vastly overeaxted to everything, while the actress playing her came across "perfect sex nympthet" basically - it just didn't make any sense.

No one had a problem with riker having a holodeck wafu.