Giving people choice is generally a good thing, but the way women like this act it's as if they would never admit that a choice of theirs was a mistake. If you make a decision, then you must also accept other people shaming you for that decision. If it's not something that you can be confident about and embrace then maybe you shouldn't have done it.

It reminds me of what people say about male feminists: They hear that all men are rapists and agree with it because they feel like they are one deep down.