Men with hobbies are a red flag to single crazy women
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Women will flock to a guy with any hobby, because the hobby is mostly irrelevant as long as he is attractive.
One of the mistakes most guys make is thinking attraction is mostly looks, because it works that way for men. But with women, you can achieve a level of confidence in your self and your actions that they will absolutely drop to their knees and play video games or watch nerd shit with you. Because that confidence is attractive.
Its why the "oh no I'm so afraid to be seen as cringe" culture of the 2010s basically destroyed so much of the dating market. Guys were so afraid to be seen fucking smiling they invented the soyboy mouth agape meme. They would only engage with their hobbies "ironically."
You're right. Men need to remember that all male/female relations are driven by deep biology. Women are hardwired to seek stability, even if they don't know it consciously. Their goal is to create a safe environment for raising children. As far as a woman is concerned, confidence = stability, and wealth = stability. That's why it's so attractive to them. It's also why they can be insufferable consensus builders.
Men are mostly only concerned with genetic fitness, which is why we go for looks and youth.