Not gonna say who I really am, but I have a discord channel involving content creation. A dude/fan/viewer or whatever you call it hangs around for a few years, just says hi and what not here and there. Recently became a tranny and recently got onto PC from console.. so this person is in discord and discord voice more often. It is pretty obvious that my discord is not into woke stuff.
In voice chat, the others and I would talk about.. "yeah trannies and woke in games are bad." And this tranny agrees with our opinion that games are forcing trannies into games and what not. Doesn't really talk about his tranny-ism except once for the past 6 months. Then recently since new years.. it started to pick up where now he makes sure people know hes a tranny and sometimes even brings it up for no reason.
Like he talks about taking "e" (e as in estrogen). And that if his voice changes, that is the reason. He would mention this multiple times. There would be a weird silence and what not lol. Then he asks whats the difference between "then" and "than" and then for no reason posts a before and after picture of him since taking "e". How his mother is a whore and that he has 6 siblings, all with different fathers.. He also claims he always thought he was a female trapped in a male's body since he was little, but then later said that his parents forced him to take estrogen when little lol. Talks about having all sorts of mental illness and clamydia. Batshit crazy. Most of the time, I just say "yeah.." "uh huh", pretty much not showing much interest.
Anyways he is a bit mental. Cant really read/spell. Makes random noises and say random shit for no reason. Annoying enough that I made a separate voice channel that only specific roles can see so we can talk about stuff or game in peace lol.
Funny enough I have a gay friend/viewer that hates gay stuff in games and hates gay pride or whatever. Even hates trannies lol. But he's cool. We call him faggot and make gay jokes with him or at him. He straight up told the tranny that he should take that shit elsewhere and that it makes me uncomfortable. Gay friend understood that him being gay gives him slightly more leeway to tell the tranny to stop.Although.. he doesnt really stop lol. Swear, the tranny has a memory of a gold fish. Says sorry, but does it later a minute or two later.
I now know why youtubers, streamers, or whatever keep viewers at bay or have pretty strict boundaries. Anyways, I thought this tranny would be different.. but it seems they all end up doing the same shit. Making sure people know the are trans and bringing it up for no reason most of the time.
Anything that encourages excessive online interaction will eventually attract the mentally ill to it. Chat servers are an especially prolific breeding ground for such people because you can always have interactions with others at almost any time, allowing them to quickly work their tendrils into the place and take control. Weird things start happening.
Honestly, this kind of person should have been gatekept earlier from your community. I understand the desire of not wanting to ban/kick people until they actually do something wrong, but trannyism is generally a red flag that's too bright to ignore. Eventually, if there is anyone on the server receptive to this person, a group of them will form. There will probably end up being some drama and shitstirring down the line, and they will make it hard to kick this person without people crying shit like censorship or authoritarianism, and your server will slowly go to shit as people fuck off.
TL;DR: You either ban em now or suffer later.
Server I used to be on had the token tranny that everyone just kinda ignored and they didn't really bother anyone outside the occasional comment about it or something to do with it. Then they invited their 'girlfriend' into the mix, starts talking about all sorts of shit nobody wants to near with em, whined when the regular groups that played together didn't make room for the literal newfag, had some crying fits to gaslight people about it, started messaging people to complain they weren't being included and started outright harassing people to play with them so they and their friend got banned and there is now a unwritten 'no trannies' rule.
Yeah. He is trying to get into everything and try to be part of the group. Trying to be in the "in group"... like "oh, i should get this game to play with you guys". Of course, we are like.. nah this game is not your type or some other crap reasoning.
Im pretty chill. Never kicked or banned anyone unless their account got compromised.
Rip off the band aid.