I think it helps to have a nuanced opinion and make sure we don't spiral into an echo chamber. For my example, I've found that lefties are able to identify a lot of the right problems, it's just that they think gay space communism is the solution to it.
For instance, I completely agree that North American cities are really stupidly designed. The car-centric nature of them means you're stranded if your vehicle breaks down. The fact that you have to go into debt to buy this big stupid box to navigate your own city is ridiculous in the first place.
But when it comes to their solutions for this they can't separate their stupid idpol nonsense from it. My local city government keeps talking about "equitable solutions" to traffic and pedestrian fatalities. Typical "world ending, women most affected" type stuff.
Plus they keep droning on about high density housing which absolutely no one wants to live in. in their utopia we'd all live in depressing Soviet-style block apartments.
This is going to blow up in our faces in a BIG way in the next 10 years or so. The Right has fashioned itself as the anti-left in so many ways, that many don't even understand the underlying reasons or arguments in favor of their own positions or against the enemy's. It's going to reach a critical mass, if it hasn't already, of an entire political movement that doesn't actually believe anything or know why they're cheering for what they're cheering for, and can be very easily misdirected into things that are awful for them so long as it's dressed up in the right disguise to play on the same emotional pulls that they're used to. And with no critical thought underneath those emotional pulls, they'll go right along with it and not even understand what's happening. I think even now, you could get a significant portion of the right to cheer for open communism so long as it was dressed up with a truck parade with a lot of flags and witty bumper stickers.
We've already spedrun to the point the Left was at like 15 years ago where "HE SAID THING I WANTED TO HEAR" is enough to grift an entire career and screaming emotional words with FACTS AND LOGIC is how people on the Right expect to convince people to their side (see, how most anti-semites operate during the best fucking time in history to recruit people).
And much like the Left, its going to turn off the masses as many figures on the Right descends further into extreme positions that are just not feasible to ever come to happen (even if they should and would be for the best).
But, unlike the Left, we haven't captured enough critical sectors nor held those believes into the zeitgeist for so long people don't question them. So when they get turned off we will just be dismissed entirely instead of it just opening up an ability to even fight back, like it is doing with the Left currently.
And that's without getting into the worse position that you described, of being easily lead astray right into our opponents hands because of how simple minded so many people have mindkilled themselves into being.