I think it helps to have a nuanced opinion and make sure we don't spiral into an echo chamber. For my example, I've found that lefties are able to identify a lot of the right problems, it's just that they think gay space communism is the solution to it.
For instance, I completely agree that North American cities are really stupidly designed. The car-centric nature of them means you're stranded if your vehicle breaks down. The fact that you have to go into debt to buy this big stupid box to navigate your own city is ridiculous in the first place.
But when it comes to their solutions for this they can't separate their stupid idpol nonsense from it. My local city government keeps talking about "equitable solutions" to traffic and pedestrian fatalities. Typical "world ending, women most affected" type stuff.
Plus they keep droning on about high density housing which absolutely no one wants to live in. in their utopia we'd all live in depressing Soviet-style block apartments.
We've already spedrun to the point the Left was at like 15 years ago where "HE SAID THING I WANTED TO HEAR" is enough to grift an entire career and screaming emotional words with FACTS AND LOGIC is how people on the Right expect to convince people to their side (see, how most anti-semites operate during the best fucking time in history to recruit people).
And much like the Left, its going to turn off the masses as many figures on the Right descends further into extreme positions that are just not feasible to ever come to happen (even if they should and would be for the best).
But, unlike the Left, we haven't captured enough critical sectors nor held those believes into the zeitgeist for so long people don't question them. So when they get turned off we will just be dismissed entirely instead of it just opening up an ability to even fight back, like it is doing with the Left currently.
And that's without getting into the worse position that you described, of being easily lead astray right into our opponents hands because of how simple minded so many people have mindkilled themselves into being.