This is actually a very common Leftist tactic.

The first question or even first sentence of their conversation sets up the argument so that: "heads I win, tails you lose".

Even disagreeing, you state "there's no problem playing as Fascists", which they use to slander you with guilt by association. In reality, Fascism isn't even present, and the definition you are accepting their use of is a fictional definition they've already used to describe you with.

Never let your enemy set the tempo of battle.