Being genuine for these guys would be to admit that their entire motivation is resentment and spitefulness. That they want to make everyone in the world as miserable and self-hating as they are. That they want to destroy the very concept of happiness through hard work and building a family because the unattainability of that to them makes it in their eyes a symbol of oppression.
I really is a strange phenomenon. I can't imagine how exhausting it must be to constantly avoid being genuine.
Most of them were raised by single moms, and it comes naturally to women. So they likely had excellent teachers.
Being genuine for these guys would be to admit that their entire motivation is resentment and spitefulness. That they want to make everyone in the world as miserable and self-hating as they are. That they want to destroy the very concept of happiness through hard work and building a family because the unattainability of that to them makes it in their eyes a symbol of oppression.