Problem is that they themselves are victims. That's the worst part about the grooming. It's a self-perpetuating cycle where victims become abusers that make more victims that become abusers.
And them being victims doesn't negate or counteract being abusers. Which is why I would feel sorry, but I don't. Because they're still abusers at the end of the day.
They're still victims in my opinion, they just forfeit their redemption in most cases. And I only say most because I think that everyone can ultimately be forgiven, it can just take a lot to earn such forgiveness, even if I myself couldn't do that forgiving.
But it's important to remember this is why these freaks NEED to be stopped. It's not just to save the victims. It's to prevent more of them from becoming abusers.
I reserve my sympathy for their victims. Among which is our civilization itself.
Problem is that they themselves are victims. That's the worst part about the grooming. It's a self-perpetuating cycle where victims become abusers that make more victims that become abusers.
And them being victims doesn't negate or counteract being abusers. Which is why I would feel sorry, but I don't. Because they're still abusers at the end of the day.
They stop being a victim the instant they decide to incorporate it into their made up identity.
They're still victims in my opinion, they just forfeit their redemption in most cases. And I only say most because I think that everyone can ultimately be forgiven, it can just take a lot to earn such forgiveness, even if I myself couldn't do that forgiving.
But it's important to remember this is why these freaks NEED to be stopped. It's not just to save the victims. It's to prevent more of them from becoming abusers.