https://rumble.com/v4ng5sr-njf-on-marriage.html
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summary:
- you can't take risks
- you can't trade your comfort for resources toward a greater goal
- women have absolute legal power
- women have no obligations or duties in how they behave
- most of the masculinity exhibited by married men is performative and trivial
- every mechanism to control a wife's behavior is seen as "abuse"
Even knowing all of this, and generally agreeing with it, I still think the costs and sacrifices are worth it as long as you go in for the purposes of having children. Unless you are an incel genius like Isaac Newton or Nikolai Tesla then producing those children and doing your best to impart your values on to them, in spite of everything arrayed against you, is your "greater purpose".
From what I saw the only thing that reduces the risk to anywhere near acceptable levels is marrying a virgin, and thanks to the cock carousel a unicorn is easier to find than an 18 year old virgin.
Right. I won't debate the essay level discussion of puritanism and virginity, because that can go on forever.
But a 5+ partner girl marrying for the first time is nearly a guaranteed failure, and will drag down the average immensely. Considering how many women are in that 5+ category long before their first marriage, of course the average overall will be pathetically low.
That average being low also has no effect on your low body count girlfriend and her prospects for marriage. Its not 50% for every girl individually, its 50% for them as a whole.
Basically, everyone needs to read deeper into their stats before they integrate them into their belief sets. Even if they play perfectly into what you want them to say.