https://rumble.com/v4ng5sr-njf-on-marriage.html
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summary:
- you can't take risks
- you can't trade your comfort for resources toward a greater goal
- women have absolute legal power
- women have no obligations or duties in how they behave
- most of the masculinity exhibited by married men is performative and trivial
- every mechanism to control a wife's behavior is seen as "abuse"
Even knowing all of this, and generally agreeing with it, I still think the costs and sacrifices are worth it as long as you go in for the purposes of having children. Unless you are an incel genius like Isaac Newton or Nikolai Tesla then producing those children and doing your best to impart your values on to them, in spite of everything arrayed against you, is your "greater purpose".
You're overlooking the actual solution here. There's no reason to endlessly go over the foibles and wrongdoings of Christmas Cakes. They're already dead. They fucked up, they're used up, nobody wants them, and for the vast majority of them they should hurry up and choke down a bottle of pills and a box of wine already.
Pursue younger women.
If all you want are kids, this is true... but for people who want actual substance in their lives, younger women are insufferable.
For the most part women of any age are insufferable.
No arguments here.