https://rumble.com/v4ng5sr-njf-on-marriage.html
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summary:
- you can't take risks
- you can't trade your comfort for resources toward a greater goal
- women have absolute legal power
- women have no obligations or duties in how they behave
- most of the masculinity exhibited by married men is performative and trivial
- every mechanism to control a wife's behavior is seen as "abuse"
Even knowing all of this, and generally agreeing with it, I still think the costs and sacrifices are worth it as long as you go in for the purposes of having children. Unless you are an incel genius like Isaac Newton or Nikolai Tesla then producing those children and doing your best to impart your values on to them, in spite of everything arrayed against you, is your "greater purpose".
The risk is too great for as long as the legal and societal framework exists that enables a woman to divorce-rape and destroy a man with absolutely no repercussions for herself. If you want young men to start marrying and having children again, then that framework needs to be dismantled first.
You can lecture young men all you want about their responsibility to have children and prevent societal suicide, but if you could motivate them by haranguing them, they'd be the most motivated demographic in the West by now. Instead, they're the least motivated, and whether it's bitching at them, bribing them or punishing them with a bachelor tax, you are never going to convince the huge number of young men who've checked out of society that it's their job to fix a mess they didn't make. You are only going to do it by showing them that their efforts will yield a positive return, and that means it's on the rest of us to start fixing what's broken first.
Nope, not how this works.
You aren't the one with the power here. You aren't in a position to make demands.
While we're on the way, the situation likely won't be resolved in our lifetimes. You have two choices. Try, or give up.
You have given up and want to encourage others to do so. Problem is, that's the only way to actually lose the game. If you aren't going to have children, then you don't matter, you're giving up your vote on what the future looks like. Because once you're dead, you're meat. You'll have no legacy.
If I take your premise on it's face, that you want women's rights abolished, then your actions are self defeating towards that goal.
It seems you think you can only win this argument by putting words in my mouth.
Nowhere have I said that I want women's rights abolished (except their supposed right to vote).
As for giving up, that is not my situation. However, I fully understand why so many men have done so, and taking out your impotent anger on me is not going to encourage them to do what you want.
You are the one making demands. You and every other so-called conservative who believes it is the responsibility of the next generation of men to clean up a mess that our generations have made by failing to prevent the feminist takeover of our institutions. Whatever you may think of me, I can tell you what many of them will think of you when you put this argument to them:
They will perceive you and your list of demands, accompanied by lectures about how lazy and useless they are if they don't do what you want, as being no different from all of the same insults, lectures and demands they've received from every adult, authority figure and woman in their lives up until now.
And they'll understandably respond by telling you to fuck off.
I'll straight up say it, I want women's rights abolished. I want them to essentially be chattel. Funny enough my wife thinks exactly the same thing, that's why she and I are together.
And I'm not making any demands here. You can do whatever you want, including metaphorical or even literal suicide for all I care. I don't think human life has inherent value, so do as you please. Nor am I a so called conservative. As I've said many times, I'm a radical Christian white nationalist. I have nothing but contempt for conservatives, because my entire life I've watched them cede our civilization to the left.
What I'm doing here, is pointing out that you're threatening the enemy with a good time. You don't have a negotiating position, because your sole card to play is their end goal anyway. They delight when you walk away and die without leaving behind any children because one of their major goals is the extermination of the White race.
And furthermore, it's tiresome to see you migtow guys constantly harping on about people who supposedly represent my lifestyle, who I've never heard of. All these social media idiots you guys obsess over are people who aren't even on the radar of actual traditionalists. Because for the most part you can't be a traditionalist without deriding social media. Particularly the attention whoring part of it.
Well I'm glad we've both established that we don't give a fuck what the other wants.
The young men you're hoping will get married and have children for the sake of continuing the white race also, by and large, don't care what you want. Because white women, especially in their age range, are useless, insufferable and utterly irredeemable, and more and more of them can see it. There is also no mechanism for holding those women accountable for any of their actions or decisions, and our generations are the ones who created that reality.
Those same young men don't perceive the "enemy" as you put it as an enemy, because that would imply they still have the will to fight.
They don't.