https://rumble.com/v4ng5sr-njf-on-marriage.html
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summary:
- you can't take risks
- you can't trade your comfort for resources toward a greater goal
- women have absolute legal power
- women have no obligations or duties in how they behave
- most of the masculinity exhibited by married men is performative and trivial
- every mechanism to control a wife's behavior is seen as "abuse"
Even knowing all of this, and generally agreeing with it, I still think the costs and sacrifices are worth it as long as you go in for the purposes of having children. Unless you are an incel genius like Isaac Newton or Nikolai Tesla then producing those children and doing your best to impart your values on to them, in spite of everything arrayed against you, is your "greater purpose".
Civilization has been able to survive for thousands of years by men leading. And not just the good ones who "manned up". Most people agreed on the role of men and women and their nations supported them.
Yep, and without the greater religious force impressing the hierarchy and meaning of life on you, it all falls apart. Ever notice how the satanic is joined with the feminine? Baphomet is half-woman.