This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.
A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.
Tons of men, especially young men, make the mistake of thinking you can navigate women by acting certain ways. "Just say no you aren't putting up with her stupid shit and she'll like you more..." This isn't how it work, at all.
What matters is how attractive you are as a man. The more attractive you are, the more you can say and do whatever you want and she'll put up with you. The less attractive you are as a man, the more you can't just say or do whatever you want. That's it. That's all there is to it.
Women don't like you any more or less because of what you say and do to them. They don't "respect you" because you're a real man who doesn't put up with her shit or whatever. Women don't think like this at all. This is just what men tell themselves to make themselves feel superior to other men based on some sort of superior behavior. In reality, the only reason some men are more successful than other men when it comes to women has nothing to do with the games the men play with the women and everything to do with how attractive the man is. If the man is attractive he can say and do anything. If the man is attractive, it doesn't matter if he says and does all the right things, it won't work.
Most relationships have a built in expiry date to them. It doesn't matter how attractive you are or what you say or do, eventually most women will stop being attracted to the man. This appears to be innate to her programming. There's psychological reasons for this and biological ones as well. That's why you hear of the 7 year Itch, etc... it's a real phenomenon. It doesn't matter how amazing you are as a man, eventually she won't like you anymore no matter what you say or do.
Tons of men, especially young men, make the mistake of thinking you can navigate women by acting certain ways.
For one thing, it can't be too forced. If it doesn't seem natural, it's not going to work. So, yeah, in that context you can't just say or do certain things and expect magic. But to act like personality and attitude don't play a role also doesn't work.
What matters is how attractive you are as a man. The more attractive you are, the more you can say and do whatever you want and she'll put up with you.
Physical attractiveness of course matters, and anyone who says otherwise is a delusional moron, no argument. But there are other ways to be attractive too. Plenty of ugly or short guys have great success with women. Money, power, humor, assertiveness, confidence, and, yes, even aggression can all boost someone's overall perceived "attractiveness" level. Again, yes, you still have better results if you're building on a foundation of physical hotness, but it's not required.
The less attractive you are as a man, the more you can't just say or do whatever you want. That's it. That's all there is to it.
That's not all there is to it. Again, some truth there, but it's not the full story by a longshot. The 'you just need to be hot' meme is cope from people who don't put in the effort. And just to reiterate...yes, being hot helps. A lot.
Women don't like you any more or less because of what you say and do to them.
Everything else has had a mix of truth and exaggeration. This one here? Wrong.
In reality, the only reason some men are more successful...everything to do with how attractive the man is.
Again, no.
If the man is attractive he can say and do anything. If the man is [un]attractive, it doesn't matter if he says and does all the right things, it won't work.
Then explain why some ugly men (and I'm not even talking ugly rich men) do significantly better with women than some attractive men. The first group has put in the work, the second hasn't, simply don't care, or have some other issue stopping them from fully utilizing their attractiveness...including the example of not being assertive or confident enough. Also, plenty of attractive men will wear out their welcome by thinking they can get away with anything, and pushing too far, or not far enough.
Eliot was right about women. I'm going through the same sort of shit he did when it comes to dating. All these fucking whores want nothing to do with me and I have no way of protecting myself from them.
This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.
The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.
A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.
No, this isn't it.
Tons of men, especially young men, make the mistake of thinking you can navigate women by acting certain ways. "Just say no you aren't putting up with her stupid shit and she'll like you more..." This isn't how it work, at all.
What matters is how attractive you are as a man. The more attractive you are, the more you can say and do whatever you want and she'll put up with you. The less attractive you are as a man, the more you can't just say or do whatever you want. That's it. That's all there is to it.
Women don't like you any more or less because of what you say and do to them. They don't "respect you" because you're a real man who doesn't put up with her shit or whatever. Women don't think like this at all. This is just what men tell themselves to make themselves feel superior to other men based on some sort of superior behavior. In reality, the only reason some men are more successful than other men when it comes to women has nothing to do with the games the men play with the women and everything to do with how attractive the man is. If the man is attractive he can say and do anything. If the man is attractive, it doesn't matter if he says and does all the right things, it won't work.
Most relationships have a built in expiry date to them. It doesn't matter how attractive you are or what you say or do, eventually most women will stop being attracted to the man. This appears to be innate to her programming. There's psychological reasons for this and biological ones as well. That's why you hear of the 7 year Itch, etc... it's a real phenomenon. It doesn't matter how amazing you are as a man, eventually she won't like you anymore no matter what you say or do.
Yes, and also no.
For one thing, it can't be too forced. If it doesn't seem natural, it's not going to work. So, yeah, in that context you can't just say or do certain things and expect magic. But to act like personality and attitude don't play a role also doesn't work.
Physical attractiveness of course matters, and anyone who says otherwise is a delusional moron, no argument. But there are other ways to be attractive too. Plenty of ugly or short guys have great success with women. Money, power, humor, assertiveness, confidence, and, yes, even aggression can all boost someone's overall perceived "attractiveness" level. Again, yes, you still have better results if you're building on a foundation of physical hotness, but it's not required.
That's not all there is to it. Again, some truth there, but it's not the full story by a longshot. The 'you just need to be hot' meme is cope from people who don't put in the effort. And just to reiterate...yes, being hot helps. A lot.
Everything else has had a mix of truth and exaggeration. This one here? Wrong.
Again, no.
Then explain why some ugly men (and I'm not even talking ugly rich men) do significantly better with women than some attractive men. The first group has put in the work, the second hasn't, simply don't care, or have some other issue stopping them from fully utilizing their attractiveness...including the example of not being assertive or confident enough. Also, plenty of attractive men will wear out their welcome by thinking they can get away with anything, and pushing too far, or not far enough.
Eliot was right about women. I'm going through the same sort of shit he did when it comes to dating. All these fucking whores want nothing to do with me and I have no way of protecting myself from them.