This MOSTLY happens to the guys that acquiesce to women at the first stage of asking to do shit like good morning texts.

The ones that go 'no that sounds stupid and I ain't gonna waste time on it' typically get more interest because they've openly refused them, said they aren't the most important thing and ridiculed the idea.

A lot of these types really want a guy to take control and deny them at times because even they know they have a lot of stupid ideas.