it's fascinating when you think about this. women are observedly and objectively more social creatures than men.
If you look at hobbies for instance, hobby spaces that are dominated by men tend to be about the activity itself, and groups around that hobby are formed for the purpose of having other people to share that hobby with, therefore having more ways to participate in the hobby. however, when the hobby space is dominated by women, it tends to be more about talking about the hobby and wearing the hobby as some sort of fashion statement so as to signal that you want to talk to other people about this hobby. female groups around a hobby tend to be about the group itself getting together and sharing stories, with the hobby being an excuse to get together.
applying this to the intellectual space, it's easy to see how men would be more interested in observed facts, whereas women would be more interested in consensus around said facts.
Men can also have hobbies all on their own, indefinitely.
Like, there are people right now who play video games or sit in a shop by themselves, doing what they love, and have been doing it alone for decades. Some of them don't even share that they are doing it or the finished product, as the time spent is the goal itself.
it's fascinating when you think about this. women are observedly and objectively more social creatures than men.
If you look at hobbies for instance, hobby spaces that are dominated by men tend to be about the activity itself, and groups around that hobby are formed for the purpose of having other people to share that hobby with, therefore having more ways to participate in the hobby. however, when the hobby space is dominated by women, it tends to be more about talking about the hobby and wearing the hobby as some sort of fashion statement so as to signal that you want to talk to other people about this hobby. female groups around a hobby tend to be about the group itself getting together and sharing stories, with the hobby being an excuse to get together.
applying this to the intellectual space, it's easy to see how men would be more interested in observed facts, whereas women would be more interested in consensus around said facts.
It's all natural from God. If we didn't deny these things of ourselves things would be much better.
Yes they work together well when everyone acknowledges the difference and goes their separate ways on this type of stuff.
Men can also have hobbies all on their own, indefinitely.
Like, there are people right now who play video games or sit in a shop by themselves, doing what they love, and have been doing it alone for decades. Some of them don't even share that they are doing it or the finished product, as the time spent is the goal itself.
Most women I know would find this sad.
That's fair, I find most women sad period.