So I've decided to be random and I thought I'd give the dating app hinge a try as it seems to be the least worse option I can see and it does seem to have some somewhat real looking profiles on it.
I wonder if any guys have been in this situation, but have you noticed how many of them constantly list travelling to <Insert exotic country> on their bucket list or they actually want a boyfriend to come with them and do it. Now I'm not against that for a holiday at all or anything like that but it seems like these women actually want to do it on the regular and these are women in their 30's.
It's not even an outlier thing either because this is clearly a trend but it made me realise how much I'm working currently. Do they honestly not realise that most guys are fucking broke and working their arses off to keep a roof over their heads? Most of them can't afford to go jet setting across the world which explains why they only end up going after the usual stereotypes that they hate and end up being cum dumpsters.
I just found it baffling, not the first time I've been weirded out by the normies.
I’ve tried eharmony and may try again in the spring. The issue with dating apps is that while women get perverted messages, they do get plenty of messages from guys who legit want to talk to them even if they are below average so they can be very picky. Guys may get 5 responses for every 100 messages they send unless they are a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. The few times I met up for coffee they most likely had multiple dates that week (one actually told me she is in no rush since so many guys message her). I’ve the the travel thing as well as the single mom with 2 or 3 kids demanding that the guy that messages her have a 6 figure job.
To be fair, if I was getting a bunch of messages from ladies then I would be very picky. This is an endless cycle and the main reason so many men leave dating apps/sites.
Pity we can’t use chatGPT to spam all of Asian/non-psycho women and just let it notify us when the date is scheduled
Oh really?! So guys make a profile and wait favor a woman to contact them?
I’ve read so many articles wondering why guys quit online dating