I think it speaks more to the broader problem at play: the prime meeting place for most couples (bars/restaurants/etc.,) is no longer the impetus for enabling people to hookup.
Given the divergence in hobbies between men and women, it highlights that the one thing that could bring both sexes together (drinking/smoking/lounging/dancing/etc.,) is dwindling among the Zoomers. It feeds into a lot of the other current stats that seem to highlight this, mostly in good part due to feminism making Western women unruly and unlikable (across multiple facets), men having zero incentive to pursue women, the economy not accommodating unnecessary expenses (drinking, smoking, partying at clubs, etc.,) and the long-term outcome of dating (i.e., marriage) being 100% drawback and detriment to men.
This is absolutely right and I'm really glad to see the discussion get more serious. Drinking isn't my fucking scene, don't get me wrong, I'll occasionally have a drink at a party or something like that I've just never been all that bothered about alcohol and don't worship it the way other people do.
Adding to that it's even finding one that I actually like that doesn't taste like crap lol I'm just going to come out and say that most drinks I've had taste awful to me. Throw the feminism and alcohol situation into the mix generally where you should frankly never be alone in a room with a woman who's had anything to drink these days and yeah it's fucked.
The place I have been able to sort of socialise and just hang out with people generally are comedy clubs. I've enjoyed that, I should probably consider doing it more, however again with the feminists I know, but the non-woke comedy clubs are few and far between. I'm up north in the UK and I always have to travel to London get to a comedy show that's worth watching. The most recent one I went to was Count Dankula's roast and I watched that live which was fun. Let's be real though, especially if it's actual edgy comedy, not many women go to that and it's a real sausage fest. At least though you have a chance of talking to people generally who aren't going to sperg over a dark joke and have a sense of humour.
Learn Spanish, get yourself financial and head off to Argentina four times a year.
Or just go to the Philippines and meet some people.
Western women have been given the license to be as selfish as they like and it is not making them happy. You can rent a flat in Haiti, or Argentina and visit it when you like. If you want to install a lady there you can take your sweet time to see if she is a faithful and sensible lady before you have a kid with her. If she cheats just cancel the rent and change your phone number. There is no child support required. She can agree to your terms with regard to custody or she can fucking starve
If things work well you can import her and your child when he is ready for highschool. By then you will know very well if she is worth the effort.
Take steps to leverage your earning power and freedom of travel to get a situation where you have the advantage. Otherwise there is no downside for women to end things and take the kid and the money.
LOL! I'm researching the situation in South America carefully. I'm probably going to be looking at learning Spanish at the very least. That's a kind of ideal situation I'll be in where if I make money from my projects I can country hop as I please and enjoy myself and maybe talk to women who aren't insane.
There's going to be a bit of a geo-political situation happening now, we have to see how the fucking elites will react and if they try to off Javier. Also the unpleasant reality that he could turn out to be another Meloni where he talks a lot of shit but barely gets anything of worth done nevermind cutting spending and lowering taxes.
If he at least manages to cut spending, lower taxes and get rid of the central bank then I'll definitely be look at Argentina because him lowering the taxes overall will mean I'll be objectively better off like you point out getting a dual passport maybe and just moving over to Argentina for the taxes alone. Potentially quite a few options opening up for me.
Very much still in a wait and see position at the moment though, early days yet. Javier Milei isn't somebody I know a lot about, let's be real, just because he says he's Libertarian/Ancap doesn't mean he actually is but honestly very few leftists are capable of faking being Ancap at all because they get so triggered by the right and can't justify it in their brains so for the first time in years I'm somewhat hopeful.
I think it speaks more to the broader problem at play: the prime meeting place for most couples (bars/restaurants/etc.,) is no longer the impetus for enabling people to hookup.
Given the divergence in hobbies between men and women, it highlights that the one thing that could bring both sexes together (drinking/smoking/lounging/dancing/etc.,) is dwindling among the Zoomers. It feeds into a lot of the other current stats that seem to highlight this, mostly in good part due to feminism making Western women unruly and unlikable (across multiple facets), men having zero incentive to pursue women, the economy not accommodating unnecessary expenses (drinking, smoking, partying at clubs, etc.,) and the long-term outcome of dating (i.e., marriage) being 100% drawback and detriment to men.
It's no wonder that more than 60% of men of marrying age have no interest in dating/marriage: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless
This is absolutely right and I'm really glad to see the discussion get more serious. Drinking isn't my fucking scene, don't get me wrong, I'll occasionally have a drink at a party or something like that I've just never been all that bothered about alcohol and don't worship it the way other people do.
Adding to that it's even finding one that I actually like that doesn't taste like crap lol I'm just going to come out and say that most drinks I've had taste awful to me. Throw the feminism and alcohol situation into the mix generally where you should frankly never be alone in a room with a woman who's had anything to drink these days and yeah it's fucked.
The place I have been able to sort of socialise and just hang out with people generally are comedy clubs. I've enjoyed that, I should probably consider doing it more, however again with the feminists I know, but the non-woke comedy clubs are few and far between. I'm up north in the UK and I always have to travel to London get to a comedy show that's worth watching. The most recent one I went to was Count Dankula's roast and I watched that live which was fun. Let's be real though, especially if it's actual edgy comedy, not many women go to that and it's a real sausage fest. At least though you have a chance of talking to people generally who aren't going to sperg over a dark joke and have a sense of humour.
Get a passport, bro.
Learn Spanish, get yourself financial and head off to Argentina four times a year.
Or just go to the Philippines and meet some people.
Western women have been given the license to be as selfish as they like and it is not making them happy. You can rent a flat in Haiti, or Argentina and visit it when you like. If you want to install a lady there you can take your sweet time to see if she is a faithful and sensible lady before you have a kid with her. If she cheats just cancel the rent and change your phone number. There is no child support required. She can agree to your terms with regard to custody or she can fucking starve
If things work well you can import her and your child when he is ready for highschool. By then you will know very well if she is worth the effort.
Take steps to leverage your earning power and freedom of travel to get a situation where you have the advantage. Otherwise there is no downside for women to end things and take the kid and the money.
LOL! I'm researching the situation in South America carefully. I'm probably going to be looking at learning Spanish at the very least. That's a kind of ideal situation I'll be in where if I make money from my projects I can country hop as I please and enjoy myself and maybe talk to women who aren't insane.
There's going to be a bit of a geo-political situation happening now, we have to see how the fucking elites will react and if they try to off Javier. Also the unpleasant reality that he could turn out to be another Meloni where he talks a lot of shit but barely gets anything of worth done nevermind cutting spending and lowering taxes.
If he at least manages to cut spending, lower taxes and get rid of the central bank then I'll definitely be look at Argentina because him lowering the taxes overall will mean I'll be objectively better off like you point out getting a dual passport maybe and just moving over to Argentina for the taxes alone. Potentially quite a few options opening up for me.
Very much still in a wait and see position at the moment though, early days yet. Javier Milei isn't somebody I know a lot about, let's be real, just because he says he's Libertarian/Ancap doesn't mean he actually is but honestly very few leftists are capable of faking being Ancap at all because they get so triggered by the right and can't justify it in their brains so for the first time in years I'm somewhat hopeful.