Evangelical churches have utterly failed young men for decades. My story is like many others:
Be a regular participant in church & youth group in mid/highschool. Grouped with kids relatively my own age. Activities are mixed gender.
Reach college age.
Zero programs, outreach, or classes for single men 18-35. You’re grouped with old men you have nothing in common with or nothing.
ABSOLUTELY NO FRATERNIZATION WITH WOMEN OF ANY TYPE!! No co-mingling programs, classes, anything, with women.
Your pursuit of a career is demonized. Your pursuit of women is demonized. You’re not allowed to talk to church women because then you’re some kind of predator.
If you do talk to church women you quickly find they are either raging whores or completely inexperienced with dating.
Both types of women are a side chick to a married man already. Either emotionally, physically, or both.
Same impossible standards of secular women apply to evangelicals except they add religion to the mix.
Realize it’s easier just to try to meet girls in school, work, or the bar.
Church practically turns into a nunnery.
The only men that pass through are married & they pick up a side chick or two.
Evangelical churches have utterly failed young men for decades. My story is like many others:
Be a regular participant in church & youth group in mid/highschool. Grouped with kids relatively my own age. Activities are mixed gender.
Reach college age.
Zero programs, outreach, or classes for single men 18-35. You’re grouped with old men you have nothing in common with or nothing.
ABSOLUTELY NO FRATERNIZATION WITH WOMEN OF ANY TYPE!! No co-mingling programs, classes, anything, with women.
Your pursuit of a career is demonized. Your pursuit of women is demonized. You’re not allowed to talk to church women because then you’re some kind of predator.
If you do talk to church women you quickly find they are either raging whores or completely inexperienced with dating.
Both types of women are a side chick to a married man already. Either emotionally, physically, or both.
Same impossible standards of secular women apply to evangelicals except they add religion to the mix.
Realize it’s easier just to try to meet girls in school, work, or the bar.
Church practically turns into a nunnery.
The only men that pass through are married & they pick up a side chick or two.
That sounds like a you problem. Go to another church. Although I don't disagree with many of those problems