Guys are just with really unattractive women but are so desperate to be with a woman they don't care. Then as a way to justify their situation they lash out against single men that are unwilling to accept a woman as ugly as the guy accepted.
Guys are with a woman whose personality is such that no other guy would want to be with the woman. She runs the relationship, they have a dead bedroom, she treats him like a workhorse and she rarely ever acts feminine.
Lots of guys think they have a catch with either scenario but in reality, men are better off being single than with either of these kinds of women.
I only go that far because of my experience irl with men who are with women. I haven't met very many guys my whole life who are with women I'm jealous of. Most guys I've known with women have such terrible women, I feel sorry for the guys being with these women. Then the guys will say things to me about dating and how I just need to do XYZ and the whole time I'm thinking so what? So I can be with a woman like this guy's wife, hahahaha. Couldn't pay me to be with this kind of woman. That's the vast majority of relationships.
It's not surprising but the guys with women might not realize how terrible women are to most men, hence why so many men aren't with women but these other men are with women. I've had many women over the years try to be with me but I haven't been interested in a single one of them. Most women, especially in western countries, are worthless.
There are millennials at pubs. I go to pubs all the time and see all ages at pubs. The issue is that women at pubs, in my experience, aren't there to find a BF. They're there to find some hot dude to fuck and that's it. The women that might make good girlfriends are scared of pubs. Also, most quality women can't afford pubs.
It's more about being lucky, but it has nothing to do with brainwashing. If you haven't met your eventual spouse by.... at the LATEST 22 it's over. We've disrupted the natural order enough by now to believe that isn't true but it is.
I'd really put the age lower, but i'm trying to be nice. I've made this comment here before, Quoting in part:
"I will never have a childhood best friend I've known for 20 years. Simply because I missed that opportunity, I'm not a child anymore and don't have one, so pursuing it now is futile.
A long term relationship is the same. You have to find a woman who will be with you as an investment, thus who is mature early. You both offer your best years.
If you don't find that early enough you've missed the boat. Exceptions may happen, I couldn't say. But your odds sink to the trench.
Healthy relationships are rare, partially because most of the population are selfish thoughtless morons, incapable of pair bonding without social pressure.
If you are in the category that requires that pressure to find somebody it will work with, tough luck mate. Get a dog"
Usually, it's one of two scenarios:
Guys are just with really unattractive women but are so desperate to be with a woman they don't care. Then as a way to justify their situation they lash out against single men that are unwilling to accept a woman as ugly as the guy accepted.
Guys are with a woman whose personality is such that no other guy would want to be with the woman. She runs the relationship, they have a dead bedroom, she treats him like a workhorse and she rarely ever acts feminine.
Lots of guys think they have a catch with either scenario but in reality, men are better off being single than with either of these kinds of women.
I only go that far because of my experience irl with men who are with women. I haven't met very many guys my whole life who are with women I'm jealous of. Most guys I've known with women have such terrible women, I feel sorry for the guys being with these women. Then the guys will say things to me about dating and how I just need to do XYZ and the whole time I'm thinking so what? So I can be with a woman like this guy's wife, hahahaha. Couldn't pay me to be with this kind of woman. That's the vast majority of relationships.
It's not surprising but the guys with women might not realize how terrible women are to most men, hence why so many men aren't with women but these other men are with women. I've had many women over the years try to be with me but I haven't been interested in a single one of them. Most women, especially in western countries, are worthless.
There are millennials at pubs. I go to pubs all the time and see all ages at pubs. The issue is that women at pubs, in my experience, aren't there to find a BF. They're there to find some hot dude to fuck and that's it. The women that might make good girlfriends are scared of pubs. Also, most quality women can't afford pubs.
It's more about being lucky, but it has nothing to do with brainwashing. If you haven't met your eventual spouse by.... at the LATEST 22 it's over. We've disrupted the natural order enough by now to believe that isn't true but it is.
I'd really put the age lower, but i'm trying to be nice. I've made this comment here before, Quoting in part:
"I will never have a childhood best friend I've known for 20 years. Simply because I missed that opportunity, I'm not a child anymore and don't have one, so pursuing it now is futile.
A long term relationship is the same. You have to find a woman who will be with you as an investment, thus who is mature early. You both offer your best years.
If you don't find that early enough you've missed the boat. Exceptions may happen, I couldn't say. But your odds sink to the trench.
Healthy relationships are rare, partially because most of the population are selfish thoughtless morons, incapable of pair bonding without social pressure.
If you are in the category that requires that pressure to find somebody it will work with, tough luck mate. Get a dog"