It's more about being lucky, but it has nothing to do with brainwashing. If you haven't met your eventual spouse by.... at the LATEST 22 it's over. We've disrupted the natural order enough by now to believe that isn't true but it is.
I'd really put the age lower, but i'm trying to be nice. I've made this comment here before, Quoting in part:
"I will never have a childhood best friend I've known for 20 years. Simply because I missed that opportunity, I'm not a child anymore and don't have one, so pursuing it now is futile.
A long term relationship is the same. You have to find a woman who will be with you as an investment, thus who is mature early. You both offer your best years.
If you don't find that early enough you've missed the boat. Exceptions may happen, I couldn't say. But your odds sink to the trench.
Healthy relationships are rare, partially because most of the population are selfish thoughtless morons, incapable of pair bonding without social pressure.
If you are in the category that requires that pressure to find somebody it will work with, tough luck mate. Get a dog"
It's more about being lucky, but it has nothing to do with brainwashing. If you haven't met your eventual spouse by.... at the LATEST 22 it's over. We've disrupted the natural order enough by now to believe that isn't true but it is.
I'd really put the age lower, but i'm trying to be nice. I've made this comment here before, Quoting in part:
"I will never have a childhood best friend I've known for 20 years. Simply because I missed that opportunity, I'm not a child anymore and don't have one, so pursuing it now is futile.
A long term relationship is the same. You have to find a woman who will be with you as an investment, thus who is mature early. You both offer your best years.
If you don't find that early enough you've missed the boat. Exceptions may happen, I couldn't say. But your odds sink to the trench.
Healthy relationships are rare, partially because most of the population are selfish thoughtless morons, incapable of pair bonding without social pressure.
If you are in the category that requires that pressure to find somebody it will work with, tough luck mate. Get a dog"