Inceldom goes so much deeper than simply 'not getting laid' it's the feeling of being absolutely rejected by society and feeling like they're too ugly to even be noticed by women.
The Black Pill. That is probably my biggest disagreement with the "incel community". Most of these guys aren't that ugly, they're just socially awkward & lack charisma at the bare minimum, also some may be lacking in the money department to even do a cheap first date.
Society will tell you "women are equal to men" but if you're a man having trouble geting dates, they will tell you "you need to learn to talk to women" as if women are different than men, society is only right on the 2nd part because they're wrong on the 1st part.
Saying the right things, the right way (with confidence & no social awkwardness) wows a woman. A woman needs to be wow'd to even want to give an above average guy a chance, much less an average guy or below average guy. Women aren't as visual as men, and will generally only note a guy's looks on the extreme ends of handsome & ugly. By extreme end of ugly, I mean has a birth defect or was in a major accident, not just "really ugly".
There's a video yesterday by Wheat Waffles who is one of the prominent voices around the black pill (spoiler alert - the black pill is more aligned to what evolutionary psychologists are finding about human nature because mating and nature is brutal and doesn't care about your feelings) where he provides a paid service rating men's looks with university students.
One of his conclusions was that women will reject you for one fundamental flaw as opposed to doing a cost/benefit analysis to see if you would be a net positive or negative. Which makes sense as women (even older, unattractive women) have lots of options and the majority of men have little to none.
One of his other conclusion is that if you're average looking (not that ugly) or below, he may as well have rated them as zero. The women he asked wanted nothing to do with these men and subsequently that equates to zero, rather than the 1-9 scale he used.
The Black Pill. That is probably my biggest disagreement with the "incel community". Most of these guys aren't that ugly, they're just socially awkward & lack charisma at the bare minimum, also some may be lacking in the money department to even do a cheap first date.
Society will tell you "women are equal to men" but if you're a man having trouble geting dates, they will tell you "you need to learn to talk to women" as if women are different than men, society is only right on the 2nd part because they're wrong on the 1st part.
Saying the right things, the right way (with confidence & no social awkwardness) wows a woman. A woman needs to be wow'd to even want to give an above average guy a chance, much less an average guy or below average guy. Women aren't as visual as men, and will generally only note a guy's looks on the extreme ends of handsome & ugly. By extreme end of ugly, I mean has a birth defect or was in a major accident, not just "really ugly".
There's a video yesterday by Wheat Waffles who is one of the prominent voices around the black pill (spoiler alert - the black pill is more aligned to what evolutionary psychologists are finding about human nature because mating and nature is brutal and doesn't care about your feelings) where he provides a paid service rating men's looks with university students.
One of his conclusions was that women will reject you for one fundamental flaw as opposed to doing a cost/benefit analysis to see if you would be a net positive or negative. Which makes sense as women (even older, unattractive women) have lots of options and the majority of men have little to none.
One of his other conclusion is that if you're average looking (not that ugly) or below, he may as well have rated them as zero. The women he asked wanted nothing to do with these men and subsequently that equates to zero, rather than the 1-9 scale he used.