It was brought up on my previous post that I had touched on a very critical subject. The destruction of western social life and isolation of modern westerners, especially men. How does this play out overall, what can be done, and to help this fit into this general site's theme, how has this affected gaming?
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I disagree. I think social media is a release valve for the society that was destroying itself with rules and social demands. We weren't having neighborhood barbecues before that point, so how could social media be the problem?
Also, I've met girlfriends and even my wife through social media. It usually involved mutual friends or social groups online.
I think the same people that destroyed social gatherings in real life are doing the same to social media.
They're narcissists. I've worked with a few, and they work that way for everything. Any authority they can get will be abused. Then they fill the board with all their work so you have to acknowledge them.
The best trick I've learned is to tell jokes. I mostly post memes on Facebook, and no one really knows my politics.
You know, I was watching this episode of an older show called Beastmaster the other day. In it one of the more philosophical characters had pointed out that the one way to counter illusions (IE, illusion magic) was through simple laughter.
There's something about this that seemed... both insightful and prophetic.
"If you struggle making friends offline, you'll struggle online too."
I agree, finding non-NPC people to talk to is hard online and nearly impossible offline. I honestly don't have time for people that constantly go on about leftist talking points. Most of my friends tend to be older men. Men my age either are apathetic about life, like talking to a husk of a person with no opinions or desires of their own or a passionate leftist.
Aye. Even though I've been generally not a fan of social media for a long time, especially with how I'd often seen it used, I've more recently become aware of certain benefits and advantages. Some more practical, others providing some useful incentive and encouragement for people to get out of their comfort zone and interact with the world a lot more.
Just as a small example, while I find selfies to be lame and narcissistic, seeing close friends taking photos and clips of their adventures provides me with a greater interest to go and seek out similar experiences. And it's not because I feel some sense of pressure or obligation, or because I'm trying to match up or compete. I simply feel inspired by what I see and want to enjoy some similar things.
There certainly are downsides of course, and I attribute a lot of this to how people sometimes choose to use or respond to the tools available. I think the trickiest part is the regular instant and on-hand access that smartphones provide, and how distracting and borderline habitual it can be to focus on that instead of putting it aside and enjoying your surroundings.
It's a tool. If you use it correctly, you have an amazing device. I discovered I could do a lot from just my phone and preferred it that way.
But then I see when a friend decides that the world needs to get their new joke about how they caught Trump this time.