I figured it would be interesting/ enlightening to hear from users who have found happy relationships in modern society and how they met. I know how much we love to make hating posts on the stupidity of modernity, but posts from guys that have successfully found stable relationships despite the cultural zeitgeist is just as important/ informative.
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So you want to hear stories of only the outliers?
The problem is that the majority of men either cannot find a relationship because of unrealistic expectations from women or they get into a relationship that fails because the woman found an option that she thinks is better.
Western society incentivizes women to have unrealistic expectations and to not value loyalty to their partner.
I am about 5'10. I am average in terms of facial aesthetics and I am an Asian American who is in decent shape. I might as well be invisible when it comes to female standards on online dating apps.
Most women I meet in real life are psychotic progressives and thus I find them very unattractive.
My standards for a girlfriend would be to not be a progressive and to not be fat and age ranging from 5 years younger than me to the same age as me. I am in my 30s.
Based on probability I likely will die alone and I have accepted it. I am fine with being MGTOW and not dealing with the absolute cancer that is most modern women.
This is not the feel-good response you were expecting but too bad. Life is not fair and western society has gone to hell.
Fuck clown world.
Yes, it's clown world.
I'm not the OP but asking about the outliers is a good way to gather raw intel on how to become an outlier yourself.
While it's okay to be fine with being MGTOW, you've got to remember that the future belongs to today's children and lord knows there are going to be a ton of absolutely fucked children in the future. The ones who can rise above it all are not just a benefit to your progeny but also a benefit to society and the species. It's a way to make sure your values don't die in the next inevitable internet censorship scrubbing.
The juice may not be worth the squeeze, but gauging the effort is pretty important in evaluating that.