I don't live in an urban area. You want a woman who is a 28 year old virgin? Again: she's gonna be a morman. I don't even think most devout Catholic women can make that claim. The woman who only had one sexual partner at the age of 28, got married when she was 23. Her only partner is her husband. If she's 28 and a virgin, she's got serious emotional and psychological problems that would exclude her from your courtship.
Their boyfriends get a say in whether or not they have sex too. And the chance that they were in 3 previous relationships with 3 men who said, "I know you're my girlfriend, fiancé, wife; but dammit: under no circumstance am I having sex with you" is around zero.
My point is that prevention isn't an option at all. You're never gonna find the perfect woman. You're gonna have to find the "goodest enough" one.
If she's 28 and has 3 previous relationships, zero divorces, zero kids, that's a good option.
Yeah it's a bad sign, but you live in the West. You have limited options.
I don't live in an urban area. You want a woman who is a 28 year old virgin? Again: she's gonna be a morman. I don't even think most devout Catholic women can make that claim. The woman who only had one sexual partner at the age of 28, got married when she was 23. Her only partner is her husband. If she's 28 and a virgin, she's got serious emotional and psychological problems that would exclude her from your courtship.
Is that not what he was saying?
I took what he said as: even that is totally unacceptable. Virgin women or nothing.
Why couldn't someone with past relationships be a virgin?
When they're 28? Good luck with that.
Their boyfriends get a say in whether or not they have sex too. And the chance that they were in 3 previous relationships with 3 men who said, "I know you're my girlfriend, fiancé, wife; but dammit: under no circumstance am I having sex with you" is around zero.