"You're being defensive" is almost never used with good intentions. Defending yourself is normal and good, and most people recognize that.
The only people who complain about it are opportunists and backstabbers who don't want to catch heat in return for launching unprovoked verbal attacks on others.
"You're being defensive" is almost never used with good intentions. Defending yourself is normal and good, and most people recognize that.
The only people who complain about it are opportunists and backstabbers who don't want to catch heat in return for launching unprovoked verbal attacks on others.