"I'm a half-Asian that grew up in a solid red area and I never thought about race until high school so idk what the director of Elemental is talking about" Silence
"Max Landis seems like a jerk but the accusations against him don't meet the definition of rape" This resulted in a girl getting extremely pissed off so I had to make peace for 15 minutes
"Hunter Biden is obviously laundering money through the painting hobby he started last week" Tepid agreement
"Male and female characters obviously behave differently and you can't just swap them into each other's stories" "Hahaaa I don't know, I just like this character doing her thing"
"Obviously cancel culture exist, we wouldn't be able to have any frank conversations if they were publicized to millions of people" "Yeah fair point" Silence
"If that female pastor is ordained, that's illegal according to church rules" Crossed arms staring at the ceiling
Before a few years ago, I've never had the problem of being too obviously right in political discussions. That's because I used to cling to dumb ideas myself, like the Iraq invasion, but at least I had a little wriggle room (democracy is a good thing for the Middle East! just give it time!). There are too many positions on the left today that are indefensible if you're not a psychopath. I guess I'm thankful my lib friends are still genuine friends and retain a shred of integrity.
If you haven't figured it out yet, people lie. Especially about politics. And especially leftists.
I'd think an Asian would know about saving face. They're not going to openly tell you that you were right about Trump, or that they're going to vote for him this time. They're going to tell you exactly what you said, never Trump.
This is why the voting booth is secret, so people don't have to face consequences of other people knowing their vote.
There's a lot of people who say they despise Trump's manner and often they are the ones most enamored and persuaded by it - being anti is a defense against what they secretly desire. Like how in the 90s the Republican congressmen that were most rabidly anti-gay were themselves gay.
People just don't get that worked up without a reason, and just being crude and inarticulate is rarely enough to explain it.