We can mock and in many ways that's rightfully so, but it does seem like she seems to have real and legitimate remorse. I feel sorry for her. What she did was still self-inflicted, and even putting those looks aside I probably wouldn't want to date her either. But she seems to have some level of self awareness that she wants something that isn't on offer to her anymore. That kinda sucks for people who do try and meaningfully change.
I dunno. On the one hand she made her bed. On the other, there should be ways back that don't leave people who legitimately want to change for the better behind in shitty places.
I'm sure a solid chunk of the prison population is remorseful and largely safe from committing their crimes again. We aren't out here giving our bleeding hearts to that convicted murderer or pedophile and wishing they could have a chance to change.
No, I largely feel the same about convicted murderers. Pedophiles go into that category of "very few things I would deem as irredeemable", something I mentioned in another comment.
Well, feel free to let them into your home and be the one to take on all the risk associated with helping them through their repentance. I'm sure it'll never go wrong ever at all, because all it takes is one time for it to all crumble on you.
Oh wait, you already admitted you wouldn't even date the girl yourself (something far easier than dealing with a murderer). So you just want everyone else to do things you won't.
Oh wait, you already admitted you wouldn't even date the girl yourself (something far easier than dealing with a murderer). So you just want everyone else to do things you won't.
Not at all. I didn't even say that she should be able to get what she's asking for. Since when did this joint get so wrapped up in binary mentalities that saying "man, the consequences she's facing does in fact suck" equate to "she should be absolved of everything she has done"?
We can mock and in many ways that's rightfully so, but it does seem like she seems to have real and legitimate remorse. I feel sorry for her. What she did was still self-inflicted, and even putting those looks aside I probably wouldn't want to date her either. But she seems to have some level of self awareness that she wants something that isn't on offer to her anymore. That kinda sucks for people who do try and meaningfully change.
I dunno. On the one hand she made her bed. On the other, there should be ways back that don't leave people who legitimately want to change for the better behind in shitty places.
I'm sure a solid chunk of the prison population is remorseful and largely safe from committing their crimes again. We aren't out here giving our bleeding hearts to that convicted murderer or pedophile and wishing they could have a chance to change.
You just feel bad because its a woman crying.
No, I largely feel the same about convicted murderers. Pedophiles go into that category of "very few things I would deem as irredeemable", something I mentioned in another comment.
True repentance is important.
Well, feel free to let them into your home and be the one to take on all the risk associated with helping them through their repentance. I'm sure it'll never go wrong ever at all, because all it takes is one time for it to all crumble on you.
Oh wait, you already admitted you wouldn't even date the girl yourself (something far easier than dealing with a murderer). So you just want everyone else to do things you won't.
Not at all. I didn't even say that she should be able to get what she's asking for. Since when did this joint get so wrapped up in binary mentalities that saying "man, the consequences she's facing does in fact suck" equate to "she should be absolved of everything she has done"?