It reads like she thought he had more money, or would have more money, than he did. I had an aunt like this. Mental illness with crazy world creates killers.
If you really want to get into this, I don't have any medical journals backing me up so it's purely experience, but I've watched multiple families break apart because the woman got crazier and crazier after pregnancy. I think pregnancy has long term mental effects on women with predisposed bipolar disorder. That's crazy enough to do this, and then come off as perfectly normal afterwards. Throw in a dissociative state and they honestly don't know what happened.
but I've watched multiple families break apart because the woman got crazier and crazier after pregnancy.
Can verify. My brother married a woman, they had a son, everything was fine; they had agreed to wait and plan for another child later. Then she stopped taking her birth control pill without brother's knowledge, got pregnant, had a second child, and went completely bananas--had an affair with a former lover, began constantly bitching about my brother's 'bad habits" they had both shared from the beginning, quit her job as a telephone operator and began pleading economic hardship, finally hosed him in a divorce in which she pleaded "abuse."
Had a cousin whose marriage ended because she was a completely different person after giving birth. I watched a slower version happen with another relative. Those are just a few. It's insane to watch because they go so unhinged. An aunt went from beloved to a lesbian sleeping with her therapist.
It reads like she thought he had more money, or would have more money, than he did. I had an aunt like this. Mental illness with crazy world creates killers.
If you really want to get into this, I don't have any medical journals backing me up so it's purely experience, but I've watched multiple families break apart because the woman got crazier and crazier after pregnancy. I think pregnancy has long term mental effects on women with predisposed bipolar disorder. That's crazy enough to do this, and then come off as perfectly normal afterwards. Throw in a dissociative state and they honestly don't know what happened.
Can verify. My brother married a woman, they had a son, everything was fine; they had agreed to wait and plan for another child later. Then she stopped taking her birth control pill without brother's knowledge, got pregnant, had a second child, and went completely bananas--had an affair with a former lover, began constantly bitching about my brother's 'bad habits" they had both shared from the beginning, quit her job as a telephone operator and began pleading economic hardship, finally hosed him in a divorce in which she pleaded "abuse."
Had a cousin whose marriage ended because she was a completely different person after giving birth. I watched a slower version happen with another relative. Those are just a few. It's insane to watch because they go so unhinged. An aunt went from beloved to a lesbian sleeping with her therapist.