What is everyone's opinion on those far from weak, artistic motivation, you too can become an alpha male, man's life starts at 30 videos that have propagated all over the place on YouTube? Although some of the advice is all right, and men certainly can improve themselves, they seem to just be more of the old tradcon "man up and do your part" crap that the blue pill normies push, as well as the old "you too can become an alpha male if you buy my 6 dvd set" grift. They also seem to be a subtle way to try and push men back into the dating and work market place despite them being such shit holes.
Problem is, why would any man take any risk in such a society or try and protect it? And why not become a criminal if a man "lives in the dark" and his only role is to grind? These arguments don't make sense based on past healthy societies, as healthy societies always tried to marry men off at a young age to keep them invested in society.
What say everyone? Is this some sort of grift, or coordinated attempt to push men back into society?
Somebody fell behind the curve, then.
Women have greater leverage over men in dating the younger they are, maxing out at 18, then in a shallow decline. Equilibrium is reached late 20s, 27/28, and then after that men start to slowly pull away, then massively pull away 35-45.
Women's value goes down with age. Men's value increases. This is because older women are less fertile & less physically attractive & have fewer "hot" years left in them.
By contrast plenty of men in their 40s are considered to be highly attractive by women in their 30s. In addition, the older women get, the less they care about looks & social status, and the more they care about money & career status.
18 year old women don't care about money much if at all. They want popular, hot guys to boost their social standing with other women. Women in their 30s care far less about social standing because they aren't in school anymore so they aren't immersed in peer group competition. Instead, they compare themselves to other women from a distance based on material success & social status. Hence why male doctors in their 40s are wildly sought after by women in their 30s.
So if you're 34yo & you can't pull as easily as 20, then you fell off. You didn't get a good job. You didn't make money. Now the women you were fucking 14 years ago are passing you over for dudes who might not have held a candle to you 14 years ago but made better life choices and passed you up financially.
When I was late 20s I noticed that when I dated 22 year old college girls, they didn't give a shit that I was a lawyer. But when I dated women in their 30s & 40s, all I had to do was mention I was a lawyer & wear a suit to dinner at a nice restaurant & they'd trip before they reached the front door their panties would drop so fast.
And while some older women were harder to pull, that's because they were hot tan beach city bitches with big fake tits who used to be not even attainable when they were 10 years younger, but now they were.
This hasn't been my experience though. I have a pretty good job and make $150k/yr. Women my age already make their own money and don't seem to care what men make. Young women never cared what men make, just how "cool" he was. A good friend of mine makes $250k/yr and doesn't have much success with women in his 30s either.
I think perhaps the difference lies in the fact that I don't find women my age attractive so dating seems much harder than when I was in my 20s and actually able to date women I did find attractive.
I hardly consider it "easier" to date when all the women who are datable at my age are total garbage. Like, when you were 22 years old, there was always a sea of fat chicks you could take home from the bars/clubs but no one said "dating was easy at 22yo" because you can take home fat chicks no problem.
At 30yo to actually date quality women is near impossible because there aren't any quality women 30yo+. All the women worth dating got picked up when they were in their 20s, and usually it was by men 0-5 years older than then not men in their 30s who were 10+ years older than them. The latter is an exceptional circumstance. Thus it's much harder to date in your 30s. Being able to more readily date trash doesn't mean dating is easier.
Stop dating coworkers. Plenty of women are broke as shit.
Yeah and those relationships often don't work out so they end up single again.
And the reason the relationship didn't workout is because of the woman. The women you want to date are the ones who are still in successful relationships in their 30s with the men they dated in their 20s.
Not true at all.
My current girlfriend broke up with her long term ex because he was selfish & basically steamrolled her. She was too bad at confrontation to fight for getting her way, so she kept building up resentment for years until she got fed up enough to leave him.
She met me a year later & we've been together in a successful relationship for over 10 years now.
Contrary to your thinking, not all women are damaged goods just because a relationship didn't work out.
I met plenty of quality women in their 30s when I was dating. They tend to have their shit together much better than girls under 25 & aren't nearly as crazy on average.