What is everyone's opinion on those far from weak, artistic motivation, you too can become an alpha male, man's life starts at 30 videos that have propagated all over the place on YouTube? Although some of the advice is all right, and men certainly can improve themselves, they seem to just be more of the old tradcon "man up and do your part" crap that the blue pill normies push, as well as the old "you too can become an alpha male if you buy my 6 dvd set" grift. They also seem to be a subtle way to try and push men back into the dating and work market place despite them being such shit holes.
Problem is, why would any man take any risk in such a society or try and protect it? And why not become a criminal if a man "lives in the dark" and his only role is to grind? These arguments don't make sense based on past healthy societies, as healthy societies always tried to marry men off at a young age to keep them invested in society.
What say everyone? Is this some sort of grift, or coordinated attempt to push men back into society?
This hasn't been my experience though. I have a pretty good job and make $150k/yr. Women my age already make their own money and don't seem to care what men make. Young women never cared what men make, just how "cool" he was. A good friend of mine makes $250k/yr and doesn't have much success with women in his 30s either.
I think perhaps the difference lies in the fact that I don't find women my age attractive so dating seems much harder than when I was in my 20s and actually able to date women I did find attractive.
I hardly consider it "easier" to date when all the women who are datable at my age are total garbage. Like, when you were 22 years old, there was always a sea of fat chicks you could take home from the bars/clubs but no one said "dating was easy at 22yo" because you can take home fat chicks no problem.
At 30yo to actually date quality women is near impossible because there aren't any quality women 30yo+. All the women worth dating got picked up when they were in their 20s, and usually it was by men 0-5 years older than then not men in their 30s who were 10+ years older than them. The latter is an exceptional circumstance. Thus it's much harder to date in your 30s. Being able to more readily date trash doesn't mean dating is easier.
Stop dating coworkers. Plenty of women are broke as shit.
Yeah and those relationships often don't work out so they end up single again.
And the reason the relationship didn't workout is because of the woman. The women you want to date are the ones who are still in successful relationships in their 30s with the men they dated in their 20s.
Not true at all.
My current girlfriend broke up with her long term ex because he was selfish & basically steamrolled her. She was too bad at confrontation to fight for getting her way, so she kept building up resentment for years until she got fed up enough to leave him.
She met me a year later & we've been together in a successful relationship for over 10 years now.
Contrary to your thinking, not all women are damaged goods just because a relationship didn't work out.
I met plenty of quality women in their 30s when I was dating. They tend to have their shit together much better than girls under 25 & aren't nearly as crazy on average.
This is the story every woman says but AWALT is very true. You got lucky. Not every man can win the lottery. The vast majority of 30yo women are damaged goods.