As the owner of a rescue dog who was born as a stray with issues that needed surgery, let me reee a bit here.
But yeah, this is one of my big issues with surrogacy. Basically playing Character Creator with your baby. I mean, it is technically a service you are paying for. What if the product you get is not the exact one you ordered?
Sure, you can say said people signed a paper that says "if kid is not to your specs exactly, tough luck, biatch", but we are talking about humans. Ones who thing ordering couture babies is a good idea. Some of them will probably get over it, but be honest, do you think some Plastic Karen or Homo It Boy will just accept the kid not fitting their curated life?
Why is it a weird question? Men who hate women so much still want kids. What if it's a female child? I'm not saying you will know the answer for them. Just... think about it.
This is one of my huge issues with surrogacy.
You are buying a product custom made for you. Let's say, you order a suit. What do you do if your suit's sleeves are a bit too long? Or it's not the right colour? Or if it doesn't arrive on time for the event?
You can't just ask for your money back with a baby. You can't send it back for additional alterations. You can't trade it in for store credit.
We have a human baby who is damaged product. What to do with it? Should they kill it? Just hand it in as another orphan? Look for a new place for it on Facebook, like when you find some abandoned kittens?
Hot take of the day: Paying women to give birth to designer kids for you should be illegal and seriously punished the the extreme.
What if you want a kid but not the attached parasite?
Surrogates are more of a "wealthy man who doesn't want to get wallet raped by an opportunistic demon" thing usually.
What if said child is a daughter?
Well obviously you drown it, like a lame puppy.
As the owner of a rescue dog who was born as a stray with issues that needed surgery, let me reee a bit here.
But yeah, this is one of my big issues with surrogacy. Basically playing Character Creator with your baby. I mean, it is technically a service you are paying for. What if the product you get is not the exact one you ordered?
Sure, you can say said people signed a paper that says "if kid is not to your specs exactly, tough luck, biatch", but we are talking about humans. Ones who thing ordering couture babies is a good idea. Some of them will probably get over it, but be honest, do you think some Plastic Karen or Homo It Boy will just accept the kid not fitting their curated life?
I see you're taking from the GenderCritical school of parenting, where if it's not the right gender, you kill it.
That's a weird question. I don't know what they want.
Why is it a weird question? Men who hate women so much still want kids. What if it's a female child? I'm not saying you will know the answer for them. Just... think about it.
This is one of my huge issues with surrogacy.
You are buying a product custom made for you. Let's say, you order a suit. What do you do if your suit's sleeves are a bit too long? Or it's not the right colour? Or if it doesn't arrive on time for the event?
You can't just ask for your money back with a baby. You can't send it back for additional alterations. You can't trade it in for store credit.
We have a human baby who is damaged product. What to do with it? Should they kill it? Just hand it in as another orphan? Look for a new place for it on Facebook, like when you find some abandoned kittens?