So know that if you support this sort of thing, it will never be matched by an equivalent support for men in any other part of society, even if they demonstrably have a greater need for assistance.

And that's every special interest group. They never want the equality they are claiming. They simply want to eliminate any real or perceived disadvantages their group has while retaining any advantages and privileges.

Which is how you get a feminist screaming that women are equal and should be eligible for all the jobs in the military in one sentence, immediately followed by a statement that it's wrong to expand the draft to women.