Ironically, it's the deprogrammed men who get all the pussy, while it is the truly sexless virgins on Reddit screaming "incel" at everyone else.

That's because "incel" has become a catch all slur against anyone who questions the narrative. I only take that term seriously when someone applies the term to themselves or when it's applied to a tranny. Otherwise it's a good bet that the person being called an incel just contradicted a feminist or described the state of the dating market in anything less than glowing terms.