SFO starts with the whole gym thot that's week's old but explains it to how men are trapped in a one sided hell if they aren't religious or Conservative where they can't flirt with someone working, public and if you share the same workplace, even if it's a consensual relationship HR will be up your ass so it all seems to be funneling men to only one place, the hellscape of dating apps. While women don't have the same issue, they can flirt wherever with little to no repercussions.
Thought it was an interesting chicken or egg debate, was this the left's plan all along to force men to be on these platforms that would further demoralise them or was this an unintended result that just worked with their other demoralisation efforts?
I’ve tried online dating and am thinking of trying again but my main issue with it is that it is great for women (rude and lewd messages aside) because even below average women get a lot of legit messages. I remember when I was on I’d get like 1 response for every 100 messages I sent and about half of those were scammers. Granted if it was reversed and women were messaging me like crazy I’d get a swelled head but I understand why men leaving dating sites much more than women.
Have you considered going overseas? I know you're black and I don't know how that might factor into things, but if you're looking for something traditionalist it's the best way to go IMO. Western women simply don't have what traditionalist men are looking for. You do need to know what you're doing and you shouldn't go in blindly, but if you're insistent on finding a wife you shouldn't rule it out.
I’ve considered it but having worked in immigration I’m a bit wary because I saw a lot of guys who got their spouse a green card only for them to leave once they got legal status. But of course I only saw the bad cases. Phillipines had the highest rate of marriage scams. But I can look around.
Be very careful with SEA women. I'm Viet, live in the US in a city with probably one of the highest Filipino populations, and I see a lot of Viet and Filipino women who are in it only for the green card. There was actually a murder that happened a few years ago where the Filipino wife and her secret lover were caught together in the university parking garage by the husband, who probably paid for her education, and he murdered both of them.
I would say that if you genuinely try to find one of these woman that shares your interests and values, you might be able to find a good one. And the good ones are ride or die for their husbands.
SFO starts with the whole gym thot that's week's old but explains it to how men are trapped in a one sided hell if they aren't religious or Conservative where they can't flirt with someone working, public and if you share the same workplace, even if it's a consensual relationship HR will be up your ass so it all seems to be funneling men to only one place, the hellscape of dating apps. While women don't have the same issue, they can flirt wherever with little to no repercussions.
Thought it was an interesting chicken or egg debate, was this the left's plan all along to force men to be on these platforms that would further demoralise them or was this an unintended result that just worked with their other demoralisation efforts?
I’ve tried online dating and am thinking of trying again but my main issue with it is that it is great for women (rude and lewd messages aside) because even below average women get a lot of legit messages. I remember when I was on I’d get like 1 response for every 100 messages I sent and about half of those were scammers. Granted if it was reversed and women were messaging me like crazy I’d get a swelled head but I understand why men leaving dating sites much more than women.
Have you considered going overseas? I know you're black and I don't know how that might factor into things, but if you're looking for something traditionalist it's the best way to go IMO. Western women simply don't have what traditionalist men are looking for. You do need to know what you're doing and you shouldn't go in blindly, but if you're insistent on finding a wife you shouldn't rule it out.
I’ve considered it but having worked in immigration I’m a bit wary because I saw a lot of guys who got their spouse a green card only for them to leave once they got legal status. But of course I only saw the bad cases. Phillipines had the highest rate of marriage scams. But I can look around.
Be very careful with SEA women. I'm Viet, live in the US in a city with probably one of the highest Filipino populations, and I see a lot of Viet and Filipino women who are in it only for the green card. There was actually a murder that happened a few years ago where the Filipino wife and her secret lover were caught together in the university parking garage by the husband, who probably paid for her education, and he murdered both of them.
I would say that if you genuinely try to find one of these woman that shares your interests and values, you might be able to find a good one. And the good ones are ride or die for their husbands.