There's a 3rd option: going overseas. It's not something that should be done blindly and you need to look at all the angles, but the pickings are far better if you know what you're doing.
That'd require staying overseas though. Not as much a problem if you're not in the US like I am.
In any case, I would look abroad to find a non-American woman but the sort that would have values close enough to mine probably wouldn't want to leave their home country. Dropping everyone you know and love to go with some American is a huge ask.
There's a 3rd option: going overseas. It's not something that should be done blindly and you need to look at all the angles, but the pickings are far better if you know what you're doing.
That'd require staying overseas though. Not as much a problem if you're not in the US like I am.
In any case, I would look abroad to find a non-American woman but the sort that would have values close enough to mine probably wouldn't want to leave their home country. Dropping everyone you know and love to go with some American is a huge ask.