Watch Harvey Birdman, Attorney at Law's sequel "Birdgirl." It's the most egregious of what you just said. The main schtick of the former is watching Birdman suffer. The sequel completely misses the point and turns the show into a fucking hugbox. It's atrocious.
It's interesting too, because face to face, women are like that to one another. Often to a point of sounding patronizing. However, the moment they aren't in the same room they turn into backstabbing harpies. Something that is completely ignored in women orientated media. Which paints a very biased point of view.
That 70's Show had a pretty funny episode that actually called this out. The men were bragging about how they can play fight without it getting nasty, and the women took offense to it. Then they tried it out and ended up going at each other's throats within seconds. (sorry, it's been years and I forget pretty much every one of their names)
However, the moment they aren't in the same room they turn into backstabbing harpies. Something that is completely ignored in women orientated media. Which paints a very biased point of view.
This tells me that they know they do it, they know it's bad to do, but they want to hide it so they can't be judged for it. Then they continue to do it, anyway.
There were lots of times I was the only man hanging out with a group of women and it gets bad quick. The shit I'd hear was atrocious. It's why I don't take majority of the complaints about men being too vulgar or locker room talk seriously. I've consistently heard women say shit men wouldn't even in a room full of "bros"
my mom used to always go on and on how men objectified her when she hit puberty. Then she became a nurse and whenever she has to unwind about her job it's 50% comments about how small the penises are on her patients. Like, dude.... Zero self awareness. Granted, a lot of em are fat and that does tend to.. offset things, but still. Preach what you teach.
Watch Harvey Birdman, Attorney at Law's sequel "Birdgirl." It's the most egregious of what you just said. The main schtick of the former is watching Birdman suffer. The sequel completely misses the point and turns the show into a fucking hugbox. It's atrocious.
It's interesting too, because face to face, women are like that to one another. Often to a point of sounding patronizing. However, the moment they aren't in the same room they turn into backstabbing harpies. Something that is completely ignored in women orientated media. Which paints a very biased point of view.
That 70's Show had a pretty funny episode that actually called this out. The men were bragging about how they can play fight without it getting nasty, and the women took offense to it. Then they tried it out and ended up going at each other's throats within seconds. (sorry, it's been years and I forget pretty much every one of their names)
The scene https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgnRRc5ldeQ
This tells me that they know they do it, they know it's bad to do, but they want to hide it so they can't be judged for it. Then they continue to do it, anyway.
There were lots of times I was the only man hanging out with a group of women and it gets bad quick. The shit I'd hear was atrocious. It's why I don't take majority of the complaints about men being too vulgar or locker room talk seriously. I've consistently heard women say shit men wouldn't even in a room full of "bros"
my mom used to always go on and on how men objectified her when she hit puberty. Then she became a nurse and whenever she has to unwind about her job it's 50% comments about how small the penises are on her patients. Like, dude.... Zero self awareness. Granted, a lot of em are fat and that does tend to.. offset things, but still. Preach what you teach.