Yea, I’m learning the cold approach doesn’t work. I’m average looking at best. People tell me all the time to meet women at church but that has been a dead end. Your method is good. At age 42 I guess I’m a little more urgent than when I was younger so I don’t play the game as slowly as before
Not hideous, not poor, and don't have a ton of kids.
That being said dating is shit and even women at age 30+ are entitled and expect a lot from a man. I recommend going to south America/Mexico and find some mostly European woman there. Same rules apply but you'll have more economic status.
What do you do for work/hobbies? How do you meet people (even men)?
I see people at work, although I do a hybrid schedule so most days I work from home. Church is another place and bookstores. I do see women at the bookstore quite a bit. I am into collecting sports cards, comic books, sci-fi, gaming, usual nerdy stuff along with sports (baseball, hockey, Dallas Cowboys). I have no kids and the only issue South American and Mexican women are nice plus I'm fluent in Spanish but after having worked for immigration and dealing with men who got married to women who left them after getting their green card I'm a bit hesitant to spend all that money for their paperwork.
Good point. I know Spanish due to having worked multiple jobs where I had to speak it all day or most of the day so I made a lot of hispanic friends and maybe I can see if they have single cousins. Not a bad idea due to the exchange rate as well.
Yea, I’m learning the cold approach doesn’t work. I’m average looking at best. People tell me all the time to meet women at church but that has been a dead end. Your method is good. At age 42 I guess I’m a little more urgent than when I was younger so I don’t play the game as slowly as before
At 42 you shouldn't have much trouble if you're:
Not hideous, not poor, and don't have a ton of kids.
That being said dating is shit and even women at age 30+ are entitled and expect a lot from a man. I recommend going to south America/Mexico and find some mostly European woman there. Same rules apply but you'll have more economic status.
What do you do for work/hobbies? How do you meet people (even men)?
I see people at work, although I do a hybrid schedule so most days I work from home. Church is another place and bookstores. I do see women at the bookstore quite a bit. I am into collecting sports cards, comic books, sci-fi, gaming, usual nerdy stuff along with sports (baseball, hockey, Dallas Cowboys). I have no kids and the only issue South American and Mexican women are nice plus I'm fluent in Spanish but after having worked for immigration and dealing with men who got married to women who left them after getting their green card I'm a bit hesitant to spend all that money for their paperwork.
I don't have any kids
Bro don't bring them back here. If you're fluent in Spanish just emigrate over there. Or split your time. Don't bring em to the USA tho
Good point. I know Spanish due to having worked multiple jobs where I had to speak it all day or most of the day so I made a lot of hispanic friends and maybe I can see if they have single cousins. Not a bad idea due to the exchange rate as well.