I probably would have disagreed with you a handful of years ago, but in the end I think you're right. Probably influenced by a bit of my own change of mindset. I never wanted kids for years, I still don't like little kids much, but now I could at least say it wouldn't be all that bad.
The finding a woman worth having them with gets even worse as age and ability to adequately provide increase, as you really end up where the remaining women are nothing but mental cases and other people's problems.
Yeah I can think of some people I know well married with a decent size age gap and they certainly seem like the ones that are doing well with it.
Honestly I even get weird reactions from some people with just my guy friends because I'm spread out in age both older and younger, or that I have a pretty close relationship with my oldest nephew or cousin both around the early teenage years. It's always women that frown on stuff, seems like the rule now is
everyone is in perpetual high school and you're only supposed to pay attention to those in your grade.
The finding a woman worth having them with gets even worse as age and ability to adequately provide increase, as you really end up where the remaining women are nothing but mental cases and other people's problems.
I'm lowkey getting worried I'm in that group. I fell for the "focus on your career and start seriously looking in your 30s" meme I got from my boomer mentors/relatives.
The women I see day to day now that im almost 30, getting into a career, and finishing school are personable enough but would they be women I'd want to start a family with? NOOooo 😯
I probably would have disagreed with you a handful of years ago, but in the end I think you're right. Probably influenced by a bit of my own change of mindset. I never wanted kids for years, I still don't like little kids much, but now I could at least say it wouldn't be all that bad.
The finding a woman worth having them with gets even worse as age and ability to adequately provide increase, as you really end up where the remaining women are nothing but mental cases and other people's problems.
Yeah I can think of some people I know well married with a decent size age gap and they certainly seem like the ones that are doing well with it.
Honestly I even get weird reactions from some people with just my guy friends because I'm spread out in age both older and younger, or that I have a pretty close relationship with my oldest nephew or cousin both around the early teenage years. It's always women that frown on stuff, seems like the rule now is everyone is in perpetual high school and you're only supposed to pay attention to those in your grade.
I'm lowkey getting worried I'm in that group. I fell for the "focus on your career and start seriously looking in your 30s" meme I got from my boomer mentors/relatives.
The women I see day to day now that im almost 30, getting into a career, and finishing school are personable enough but would they be women I'd want to start a family with? NOOooo 😯