It really has very little to do with men "being owed sex" by women. Most men don't really believe they're owed sex by women, or anyone for that matter. The big issue is that society has placed such an emphasis on premarital sex and random hookups and casual sex that young men are beginning to feel like if they aren't having sex they are missing out on an integral part of life, which is not the case.
Sure, there are definitely men out there who truly believe that women are simply there to please them and be their slaves, but that is not the case for the vast majority of men, even so-called incels. They have simply been led to believe that sex is an amazing, huge part of life, that it is integral to a normal life and, while it is important to a healthy relationship, it's not necessary to live a normal life.
It also comes back, in a way, to the destruction of traditional masculinity. If they can convince millions of men that sex is the only thing that matters, that it is the most important part of a relationship and of life, then that's all they're going to care about. They're not going to focus on other things such as learning new skills or trade or bettering themselves in some other way.
Of course, the funny part of all this is that by convincing men that sex is the only thing that matters, they are completely reducing women to only being important in a sexual way. Although, I suppose that's part of the plan too. After all, we can't have women being motherly figures or caring individuals in a household or in life in general. We have to have them choose careers that debase them and destroy their mental well-being. It really is all connected I guess. The destruction of the family unit, the destruction of traditional masculinity, the destruction of traditional femininity, the sexualization of children... It really does circle back to the destruction of traditional values in a way that lets them swoop in and replace traditional morality with some sort of perverted new age "progressive" morality.
Anyway, that's my $0.02
Biggest way for men to get back to a normal relationship is to not play the online game. Don’t get on online dating apps, get off social media, and never move in together before full marriage (and get a prenup.)
Just don't get married period. It's a one way street requires men to gamble their futures and they get nothing that they couldn't get without that risk. I agree about staying off the apps. Only Chads and thots get any utility out of the apps.
I hate to break it to you, but prenups do basically nothing. They cover the event of having significant asset disparities before the marriage, so it might matter if you're a millionaire and nothing else goes wrong in your marriage.
For everything else, almost nothing a normal man cares about is protected by a prenup. There's already Laws covering marriage on the books, and wherever the Law and a Prenup disagree, the Law invalidates a prenup (eg, alimony, child support, debt, infidelity clauses, etc.).
Do not trust a prenup to protect you.
I think moving in together before marriage being a negative or positive is entirely dependent on how long the relationship has been going on before you move in together. I understand that it's anecdotal but I can compare my own marriage to that of a friend who's now on his second marriage. His first marriage, they had been dating for a few months at tops before they moved in together. My wife and I had been dating for several years before we moved in together and we're now happily married well over a decade. My friend, after his first marriage fell apart, bounced around between living with his mother at the age of 34 living in an apartment moving from town to town moving from job to job etc etc.
I think a better idea would be to make sure you know the person before you move in with them or try to start a long-term committed relationship with them. You can't really know someone after a few months but after a few years it's much easier to get a grasp on who the person is and how they'll react to certain situations. Again, I understand it's anecdotal but I do think there is some truth to it.
I completely agree. The biggest issue is most young people (18-29) go straight into moving in together after a month or two of dating and their partner completely changes. Moving in with someone you have known for years would be more of an exception to the rule than what is currently common.
Yup. Why you don’t marry (and in that course, move in with each other) until after a few years of knowing each other. Last thing any guy needs is to be in a joint lease with some psycho that destroys the apartment or rented home.