I guarantee you that this is a defense mechanism to being raped. I would put serious money on the fact that she was sent of to college as a naïve girl by naïve parents and got a train run on her at a party by DeMarcus and his homies.
She was failed by her parents in every way and I feel nothing but pity for her.
Then again, I am a legit village kid from a family where nobody has a fancy degree. We are simple people.
But even when I was younger, I knew better than these girls who think getting drunk and high with random stranger douchebags is a good idea.
Then they go and suddenly are scared of men EXISTING.
Like how fucking dumb do you have to be to have so little instincts?
I used to work with this incredibly dumb girl, who said she was raped when she was 14. How? She was getting high with grown ass men. That is not being naive, that is being a retard with zero morals. Like what sort of a world is it where she thought that was a good idea? That it was NORMAL?
I'm not one to say we need to like beat the shit out of kids or whatever. But kids who grow up without fear of anything end up like that.
Just the idea of anyone doing drugs NEAR me would have me scared as shit at that age.
But now they all believe they can do fatally retarded things with no consequences. We are not talking about actual children, but teens.
Like how fucking dumb do you have to be to have so little instincts?
They've had their instincts brainwashed out of them. Girls especially, are told that 'judging' someone in any way, shape, or form is wrong. They have this repeated to them by teachers, media and friends their entire childhood to the point it is seen as a modern sin.
But kids who grow up without fear of anything...
Modern society, for middle class White women, is so safe as to be nearly a fairy tale. Think about what women are encouraged to wear out in public in modern Western societies. They can do that because White, Western men have become so disciplined and browbeaten that they are not a threat to the average woman. So these women, not knowing any better, assume all men are like the White boys they are used to being around. Until they find out they're not and then it's too late.
The fucked up part is that women turn out like the girl in OP because she blames herself for what happened. She blames herself because she's been brainwashed her entire life to think that there are no such things as bad people. So when something bad happens to her it can't be anyone's fault but her own. She now carries this misplaced guilt and has no way to deal with it, instinctually she knows she wasn't totally to blame but intellectually she can't blame anyone else. That manifests as self-destructive behavior that makes her both less attractive of a target and acts as a form of self-flagellation.
I guarantee you that this is a defense mechanism to being raped. I would put serious money on the fact that she was sent of to college as a naïve girl by naïve parents and got a train run on her at a party by DeMarcus and his homies.
She was failed by her parents in every way and I feel nothing but pity for her.
Then again, I am a legit village kid from a family where nobody has a fancy degree. We are simple people.
But even when I was younger, I knew better than these girls who think getting drunk and high with random stranger douchebags is a good idea.
Then they go and suddenly are scared of men EXISTING.
Like how fucking dumb do you have to be to have so little instincts?
I used to work with this incredibly dumb girl, who said she was raped when she was 14. How? She was getting high with grown ass men. That is not being naive, that is being a retard with zero morals. Like what sort of a world is it where she thought that was a good idea? That it was NORMAL?
I'm not one to say we need to like beat the shit out of kids or whatever. But kids who grow up without fear of anything end up like that.
Just the idea of anyone doing drugs NEAR me would have me scared as shit at that age.
But now they all believe they can do fatally retarded things with no consequences. We are not talking about actual children, but teens.
They've had their instincts brainwashed out of them. Girls especially, are told that 'judging' someone in any way, shape, or form is wrong. They have this repeated to them by teachers, media and friends their entire childhood to the point it is seen as a modern sin.
Modern society, for middle class White women, is so safe as to be nearly a fairy tale. Think about what women are encouraged to wear out in public in modern Western societies. They can do that because White, Western men have become so disciplined and browbeaten that they are not a threat to the average woman. So these women, not knowing any better, assume all men are like the White boys they are used to being around. Until they find out they're not and then it's too late.
The fucked up part is that women turn out like the girl in OP because she blames herself for what happened. She blames herself because she's been brainwashed her entire life to think that there are no such things as bad people. So when something bad happens to her it can't be anyone's fault but her own. She now carries this misplaced guilt and has no way to deal with it, instinctually she knows she wasn't totally to blame but intellectually she can't blame anyone else. That manifests as self-destructive behavior that makes her both less attractive of a target and acts as a form of self-flagellation.